Rape Culture Video Analysis

I decided to write my response over the rape culture video, because rape is something that hits home for me. When I was 14 years old, my best friend from high school and I were hanging around some older guys that were a couple years older than us. We put ourselves in a situation where we were out numbered, and drinking was involved. We were both young, and until this point had not drank alcohol. An 18-year-old boy raped my best friend that night. She was very intoxicated and he had not drunk at all. She did not give consent, and was incoherent when I walked in on it happening. Even though this story sounds like a given, it was not that simple. After months of investigation, the case was ruled a “he said she said” type of situation, meaning
It is shown all over the world and sometimes we don’t even realize it. It is not at all uncommon to hear things like “that test just raped me” on campus. Because of my past experiences, I do not use phrase like that, but I cant say I speak up when they are used. It is difficult to speak up when someone uses the word out of context because it is so common to hear, and I know the people saying these phrases do not actually mean to offend anyone. I believe the reason rape gets thrown around like it is nothing is because society has made this image of it not being that big of a deal. For example, the video talks about how 3 of 100 rapists will ever go to prison; it is this kind of leniency that makes rape culture increase. In most cases, victim blaming occurs. The video explains victim blaming as the act of blaming the victim by what they are wearing or how much they drank. After covering this topic and reading the chapter, I believe a huge part of my best friends story had to do with victim blaming. She was so criticized for putting herself in that situation that the rape occurring did not seem to matter, as if the boy had the right to do so just because she was out number and hanging with older boys. It sickens me that society has allowed rape culture to even become a topic, and it has come this far. The occurrence of rape taking place on college campus is scary, and the statistics