Mrs de Winter in Rebecca, is a young woman who openly admits to herself and her readers that she is "a martyr to [her] own inferiority complex"; she, like a martyr, is willing to sacrifice her very life to assure those around her that she is indeed not so impressive or important as others -or in her case- the late Rebecca(p 141). Since her first arrival in her new home, Manderley, Mrs de Winter has become obsessed with its former mistress Rebecca, who from beyond the grave, destroys the narrator's confidence and so influences her every thought and action. The narrator has never resisted this behavioural pattern, due to a lack of confidence in herself and the success of the marriage she has begun.
Since her days working as a companion for the socially parasitic Mrs van Hopper, the narrator has allowed herself to be used by others, and "hating [her] errand", but unwilling to refuse its execution, she fulfilled it, imposing upon the lives of others at the behest of her employer, simply because she was unwilling to confront another, more socially superior person, and illuminate the intrusion to the lives of others (p16). Instead, Mrs de Winter complies, aiding the infliction of misery onto others before sitting "silent and attentive" having insufficient security in her own opinions, knowledge and conversational skills to contribute to the encounter or to leave an impression