Life’s events can change our priorities. Tom Benecke’s experience in “Contents of a Dead Man’s Pockets” by Jack Finney is a perfect example of this: before Tom’s experience on the ledge, all he cared about was work, his wife and family, but everything in his life came second to his work. After Tom nearly died, several times, he realized that he was doing life all wrong. It was not until he went through this traumatic experience that anyone could get through to him. If Tom’s priorities can change drastically anyone’s can.…
According to Simply Psychology, “Rogers believed that people are inherently good and creative. They become destructive only when a poor self-concept or external constraints override the valuing process” (McLeod). This means that self-concepts and external things get in the way of people being good. Without the outside factors, everyone would be and do good. Therefore, the therapy focuses on making people who they want to be, and eliminating poor self-concepts and outside factors that hinder them from being the person that they want to be.…
For forty years, Peterson focused on speaking at communication workshops and to couples. He dedicates his life to counseling and pastoral ministry. Peterson wrote Why don’t we listen better? Communicating and connecting in relationships to help couples gain the communication skills needed and improve their relationship. In the book Peterson introduced the flat brain theory in which he uses this theory to understand the problem of failed communication. The theory also shows how and why tense situations get us upset and what to do about it. He discusses where the stomach, heart, and head fit in the Flat-Brain Theory of Emotions. He stated that, “Communication is the lubrication designed to keep our functions of stomach, heart, and head working separately and together” (Peterson 2007, 16).…
Narrative Therapy. (May 18, 2013). In Wikipedia the Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved May 26, 2013, from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narrative_therapy…
Lambert, M. J., Bergin, A. E., & Garfield, S. L. (2004). Bergin and Garfield’s handbook of psychotherapy and behavior change (5th ed.). New York, NY: John Wiley & Sons.…
My feelings toward this self-help book are that I was unaware that a person could “train” another human being, similar to what an animal trainer does to exotic or everyday animals. I felt that the author, Amy Sutherland, wrote this self-help book to explain and give advice on how to “train” another person to do what you want them to do; without nagging or verbally demanding what you want them to do. I also felt that the techniques, which were written in this book were given to readers as a chance to improve and strengthen his/her relationship instead of destroying the relationship by making it worse. In my opinion, the techniques and advice given were amazingly interesting and that all of the reasons behind each technique made plenty sense to me.…
ory a president’s success or failure has been determined greatly on the basic character and leadership of the President. “Historians and political scientist have argued about how important a leader’s characteristics are for understanding and explaining events.” (Pika, Maltese, & Rudalevige, 2017) Most of America’s presidents have had many common characteristics, from coming from similar financial back grounds, some whose fathers whom served public offices, and education from ivy league colleges. With all these similar characteristics, what can one determine led to their success or ultimate failure? They have many different styles of leadership they have all held this position. However, leaderships styles can differ and still have positive…
Halstead, R. W. (2000, January). From tragedy to triumph: Counselor as companion on the hero 's journey. Counseling and Values, 44(2), 100…
Numerous emotions were evoked as I was reading Tweak by Nic Sheff. The main emotion I felt was sadness. My best friend Jack from high school went down a path that reminded me eerily of Nic's path. We met during sophomore year of high school in Chemistry class. He was a super quiet, clean-cut kid. His parents were both doctors, and he lived in an old mansion in the countryside. This sort of parallels Nic’s privileged life, as he starts the novel, “I was seventeen and been accepted at prestigious universities across the country and I figured a little partying was due me,” (1). This is just like Jack. He was planning on going attend college to study chemical engineering, but his addiction to heroin prevented that. He told me once that his addictive habits all started off with weed. On page one, Nic also notes that his drug problems began because he started smoking weed and drinking alcohol too young. Stories like Jack and Nic’s bring so much sadness to me because these boys threw away so much of their potential for drugs.…
Prescriptions for psychiatric drugs to children and adolescents have skyrocketed in the past 10 years. This article presents evidence that the superior effectiveness of stimulants and antidepressants is largely a presumption based on an empirical house of cards, driven by an industry that has no conscience about the implications of its ever growing, and disturbingly younger, list of consumers. Recognizing that most mental health professionals do not have the time, and sometimes feel ill-equipped to explore the controversy regarding pharmacological treatment of children, this article discusses the four fatal flaws of drug studies to enable a critical examination of research addressing the drugging of children. The four flaws are illustrated by the Emslie studies of Prozac and children, which offer not only a strident example of marketing masquerading as science, but also, given the recent FDA approval of Prozac for children, a brutal reminder of the danger inherent in not knowing how to distinguish science from science fiction. The authors argue that an ethical path requires the challenge of the automatic medical response to medicate children, with an accompanying demand for untainted science and balanced information to inform critical decisions by child caretakers.…
In solution-focused counseling, the counselor leads the session. Counselors set the tone for the counseling session. They lay out clear expectations and expect the clients to actively participate, in order to produce change. (Goldenberg & Goldenberg, 2013). Solution-focused therapists guide the counseling session, while the clients come up with goals to achieve. Narrative therapy is client-led. The clients lead the session by sharing their stories with the counselor, and come up with new stories that will free them from their past problems. Narrative therapy is also client-led because “narrative therapists reject the expert role, that of believing they understand clients better than clients do themselves” (Goldenberg & Goldenberg, 2013, p. 398). Narrative therapy encourages clients to examine their own lives through the stories they tell, with the hopes they will positively change their stories. Narrative therapy is also client-led because the counselor does not enforce goal achievement. Clients determine whether or not they will achieve their goals. Their ultimate goal is to rewrite their story and change their lives for the…
This week I have learned lot from Visualizing Learning from Chapters 3, 13, and 14. All the vocabulary words and meaning through pictures all made sense after reading and the examples that were used. I had no difficulty with any of the terms that were used in each of these chapters. I have learned a lot especially in Chapter 14 with Cognitive Therapy and Goals of Psychotherapy. They were self-explanatory and had great examples next to them to help steer me in the right direction. I tend on using what I know out in the real world as well. This week opened my eyes to a lot. In Chapter 15, learning about empathy-altruism hypothesis and egoistic model of altruism, meaning if we had more people in the world that act this way, then there would be less selfish people out there. With different types of therapy out there people do not have excuses on why there is no help at all. Knowing the right people can get you the right help.…
As mentioned in the introduction, the basic principle of narrative therapy is that the patient is not defined by their problem. Narrative therapists look at the problems a person is experiencing as separate from their person, and encourage their patient to do the same thing. For example, if a person is an alcoholic, a narrative therapist would encourage that person to focus on their future and not see themself as defined as an alcoholic. Narrative therapy focuses on self-empowerment by getting patients to look at the positives of their situation and their person (Combs, 1996). Patients work to pinpoint the strong parts of their life, as a building block…
Rowan and Jacobs (2002) The Therapist Use of the Self Open University Press: Buckingham and Philadelphia…
I am to put the theory to practice by completing two 50 minutes of recorded counseling sessions with a professional counselor. After each session of the “counseling”, I will review and reflect the an hour session of the counseling with my group members.…