Reframing: Effective Communication
In communication, as leaders, people want to be heard, and all they require of the leaders is to listen and help them realize who they are because they do not know, and they trust the leaders for answers. McCreary and Dancy write communicating is an adequate family function. Family members talk to share thoughts, inform, advise, and encourage one another. Effective parents talk by sitting down and talking through disagreements.(McCreary) Talking is expressing what is in the heart. The Bible says in Proverbs 23:7, "For as he thinks within himself, so he is." McCreary and Dancy also construe everybody voices their opinion, and if one wants to do it one way and the other one does not wish to do it that way, they sit down and discuss a solution.
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Reframing is an essential part of a constructive communication process. However, reframing can also be manipulative. It can be used to talk people out of their concerns or feelings or to water down a conflict or issue which can cause distrust."(210) Reframing is a gradual process that requires a person to change the way they think about the conflict. To look at it from another point of view. Reframing is important because a person cannot enter into a conversation with the same mindset. An individual must have an open mind and a receiving attitude to hear the other person with understanding. Some people do things the way they accustomed too. We try to solve problems by approaching them with the same mindset that created the problem in the first …show more content…
This change requires vision, courage and much work." Maxwell denotes, "to be successful; you need to learn how to communicate with others."(2) A person must respect the other party opinion and listen and understand. For this change to come to pass, the Bible says in Romans 12:2, the mind has to renew through transformation. During this transformation, a person develops communication skills to enrich the relationship.
Three examples of conflicts That the Writer witness that can bring a reframed solution are, one, the pastor allowing another speaker to speak at the church and not using the gift/talent of the other preachers that are members of the church. Two, associate pastor fighting over power in the church and third, membership decreasing. These three conflicts can be solved through decent
Reframing is an essential part of a constructive communication process. However, reframing can also be manipulative. It can be used to talk people out of their concerns or feelings or to water down a conflict or issue which can cause distrust."(210) Reframing is a gradual process that requires a person to change the way they think about the conflict. To look at it from another point of view. Reframing is important because a person cannot enter into a conversation with the same mindset. An individual must have an open mind and a receiving attitude to hear the other person with understanding. Some people do things the way they accustomed too. We try to solve problems by approaching them with the same mindset that created the problem in the first …show more content…
This change requires vision, courage and much work." Maxwell denotes, "to be successful; you need to learn how to communicate with others."(2) A person must respect the other party opinion and listen and understand. For this change to come to pass, the Bible says in Romans 12:2, the mind has to renew through transformation. During this transformation, a person develops communication skills to enrich the relationship.
Three examples of conflicts That the Writer witness that can bring a reframed solution are, one, the pastor allowing another speaker to speak at the church and not using the gift/talent of the other preachers that are members of the church. Two, associate pastor fighting over power in the church and third, membership decreasing. These three conflicts can be solved through decent