Cause and Effect First Draft Composition I
Why Relationships Fail
Today, there is a 60% chance that a relationship won’t last. Is finding true love really that hard or is there something else going on? Most of the triggers that cause a budding relationship to detonate are not that mysterious. If long lasting relationships cannot be maintained, there will always be a struggle to be happy. How does it happen? How does it seem that even the best of relationships find a way to go bad? Some of these causes in are in communication, understanding changes, realizing fantasies, and just knowing what love is An article written by Tejvan Pettinger looks at the cause and effects of why once harmonious relationships break down.. If it’s known why relationships are liable to break down there can be a way to avoid future pain.
Yet one of the biggest reasons why relationships fail is a lack of communication. Ironically, it is the communication that got a couple into a relationship in the first place. Yet over time, a couple can start to communicate less. Maybe it 's an expectation that the partner should automatically know what the person wants or needs, yet isn 't providing it. This can be stressful, since people 's wants and needs change over time and we haven 't been given the ability to read minds just yet. Regardless of the feelings or reasoning, a lack of communication can be an instant relationship killer. We have heard these stories countless times: "She seemed so amazing in the beginning, and six months in, she turned into a controlling nightmare!" "He was so sweet in the beginning, and now he 's turned into the biggest cheapskate." There is a common school of thought that it takes about six months to get to know someone fairly well, and to see multiple sides of that person. This is why it is so crucial that you take your time getting to know anyone you are dating. It 's either going
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