Helen feel anger, pain, fear, or hurt but never show it, she internalize her pain and kept it inside. The therapist asks her to respond to her mother Sara, the anger she feels for her mom. Helen respond to her mother by saying to her mother that she can’t stop being there for her Helen feels disconnected from her mother. When she goes back to her seat she tells her mother she wanted her to feel please about her Helen feels she was good and wanted acceptance. Helen wanted her mother to be please that she was good.…
By the 1970’s Betty Friedan had moved on to the issue of how society sees and treats the elderly. While doing research for the last book called “The Fountain of Age”, she found that people who were talking about and treating elderly people the same way they did women 20 years before that. She felt that the elderly were becoming patronized and treated poorly as a person. She had not stopped being a feminist, but at this time there was a whole new group of concerns with society and the way the elderly were being…
Valgardson introduces various situations that require survival techniques in the story. One is the helplessness of the children in the violent home atmosphere and the poverty that they live in. Whenever Eric and Mabel fought, "the children hid under the Toronto couch, lying absolutely still, making no sound for hours on end." (61) The action of hiding that the children take when the parents are fighting, presents one of the animal instincts that is shown throughout the story. Because of the vulnerability the children have, they remove themselves out of sight and presumably, out of danger. Mabel is also touched by feelings of helplessness which is most apparent when she is outside struggling with the cold and close to death. Because of her exposure to the cold Mabel, "instinctively made her body as small as possible to preserve her warmth."(64) Her automatic reaction to place herself in the fetal position shows that her unconscious mind has already collapsed into a self-preservation mode, as like the children do when they are threatened. Eric, the dominant male in the story also submits to frailty and powerlessness when he gives, "a sudden start and his eyes widened as if, without warning, a terrible vision had been thrust upon him. He took a step toward the door, then stopped."(69) His realization of the children still huddled under the couch drives a wave of despair and regret over his person. Knowing that he can do nothing and that as soon as the heat from the stove dies the children will most likely die, he paces and staggers like a caged animal.…
Strindberg created a character that is driven by hereditary tendencies. Miss Julie’s mother is one of the most prominent absent characters of the play and holds a strong power over her daughter’s personality and…
All adolescents experience many rites of passages due to the turbulence they face during that changing period of their life. Looking for Alibrandi underlines the difficulties and hurdles faced by adolescents due to the changes that hinder their journey and must be overcome before progressing through to adulthood. Melina Marchetta successfully explores some of these many rites of passages including social status, family difficulties and cultural acceptance.…
The basis for chosing this study over middle age people in the inner city was simply because I have found myself living amongst this population and have personal connections with those who have overcome hardships, and those who are trying to dig themselves out of the hole. The area in which I live in is poverty stricken, filled with broken homes as well as broken people who are feeling the reprocutions of past generations. These individuals are of low social economic status and live paycheck to paycheck, trying with great difficulty to meet the needs in which they must survive. Drugs and alcohol have corrupted many families in this area, causing friction and struggles to arise. I have witnessed this struggle and feel a great compassion for the impoverished and unsatisfied people of this location. In relation, Katherine S. Newmans's book entitled "A Different Shade of Gray," describes a group of individuals, living in relatively similar circumstances, at a point in life where they are faced with many decisions about family, work, and how their situations effect them from midlife and beyond. This paper's aim is to describe a general overview of the book entitled "A Different Shade of Gray" by Katherine Newman, as well as briefly discussing the difficulty of growing old for different groups of people.…
In “The Violets,” the persona experiences a transition from childhood innocence to experience, sparking the process of maturation. This idea of childhood innocence is a Romantic ideal, and the process of growth that one experiences from this state of innocence to adulthood takes place when the persona learns about the inevitability of time. The dialogue, “Where’s morning gone?” is representative of this realisation, with the rhetorical question reflecting the child’s confusion at this stage of life when one is innocent and unburdened by certain mature knowledge. Also, the noun, “thing,” in the emotive lines, “used my tears to scold the thing that I could not grasp or name that, while I slept, had stolen from me,” refers to time and its namelessness symbolises the fact that it is abstract and unreturning, and incomprehensible to a child. This is what makes a child innocent and, Romantically invested; this is what Harwood is shown to value through her poetry. The emotive word, “tears,” and the dramatic verb, “stolen,” further exemplifies the harsh realities that accompany maturation and signify a loss of innocence. In these lines of the third stanza, there is a tone of sadness and despondency as the persona comes to terms with what the inevitability of time means for one’s life: that, regardless of when the process of maturation begins, one’s time is always limited. As Harwood’s poetry deals with the significant universal themes of personal growth, maturation and loss of innocence…
In this piece I will be looking at Katie in her later stages of life as she became an older adult. Seeing what mental and physical changes occurred and how it affected her socially and emotionally. As well as seeing the different help she began to need due to physical aging.…
Then her mother died, her sisters scattered” (6). When a person has to deal with that much suffering, especially early in life, a trend of unhappiness begins to occur. Furthermore we learn about she was never really wanted by the people she becomes acquainted with like Madam Aubain or Théodore. This would have a long lasting effect on her because when you get mistreated for so long, you start to believe…
According to Woodside and McClam, the four major themes of human services include problems with living, the growing number of problems in the modern world, self-sufficiency, and the three distinct functions human services serve: social care, social control, and rehabilitation (An Introduction to Human Services). I find that human service functions is the more critical theme in human services. As discussed in the book, the separation of social care, social control, and rehabilitation is often very difficult considering they tend to occur simultaneously (Woodside & McClam, 2012). Because of this, a better understanding, concentration, and knowledge of one’s social needs, his or her past, and the cause behind his or her needed rehabilitation is essential to said person’s self-sufficiency. Nothing can be gained or accomplished until something is learned and/or discovered. Almeada’s issues, for example, were once helped by Ms. LaRosa because of her persistence in learning of Almeada and Anna’s social needs (Woodside & McClam, 2012). This theme somewhat encompasses Almeada’s problems with living, the problems she is experiencing in the modern world, and her lack of self-sufficiency.…
The first two or three decades of a person’s life is often considered as the most crucial stage in the process of growth and development. Not only do these years see the physical transformation of an infant into a fully grown individual but are also the time when character, beliefs, and principles are developed – a stage known as coming of age. Ideally, the place a person lives along with the people and conditions surrounding him should be nourishing and fostering in able for him to achieve optimal development. Yet in reality, not all people are born and raised in an ideal environment. In many instances, a person may be born into a life of struggle and challenges, in which case coming of age becomes a matter of interaction between the influence of elements in life to a person and the same person’s response to such elements. In Anne Moody’s memoir, Coming of Age in Mississippi, published in 1968, the reader sees the author’s remarkable coming of age. In a way, it can be said that the elements in Anne’s life has caused her to witness conflict between discrimination and inequality. Major elements such as characters, setting, and conflict contribute to the plot that traces her development from a young girl to a highly principled woman.…
With some connections to the idea of struggle and survival, we can use The Inheritance of Exile by Susan Muaddi Darraj and A Gathering of Old Men by Ernest J. Gaines to show that a home may not always be a safe and secure place. Both stories represent the importance of a rooted home with the exceptions to the difficulties within that home. We will see the struggles behind the immigrant Palestinian women now living in America as they share their personal stories with their daughters, of living in refugee camps. As for the old men gathered at a Louisiana sugarcane plantation known as Marshalls. They await Fix Boutan’s arrival for the murder of his son Beau Boutan. They will share their personal and collective…
The central themes of the play are familiar to Gothic horror fiction such as Collins’ Woman in White or Bronte’s Jane Eyre; the character of Kipps is a father, and the character of the Woman in Black is a mother, and so fear of children or infanticide, as well as the fear of death are very prevalent in the story. Not only this, but social morality is also a theme in the same way as it is in Dickens’ A Christmas Carol, or Priestley’s An Inspector Calls. The ghost in The Woman in Black is haunting the characters because she has a message for society about the mistreatment of women. Another central theme is the idea of fear and fantasy, in that Kipps wants people to believe his story which, bearing in mind he was the only one who experienced the haunting at Eel Marsh House, nobody seems to. He is therefore planning to put on the performance with the Actor to tell his story, which creates a sense of dramatic irony: at the end of the play the Woman in Black is proved to be haunting Kipps still, and has been playing her own part throughout the story.…
Esther’s outer self is habitually playing roles that others would want her to play, for example, for her mother, Esther plays the role of the ideal daughter who was “trained at a very early age” and had “given her no trouble whatsoever.” For Doreen, she plays the role of Elly Higginbottom, a confident outgoing girl, which is the opposite of the real Esther, who is often nervous and insecure. This character that Esther’s outer self has created is not only because of what Doreen would like her to be like, but also because, Esther wanted to strip herself from her identity and wants to be a completely new person with no past or expectations, as she demonstrates when she says, “ I didn't want anything I said or did that night to be associated with me and my real name”. As the night progresses, Esther feels herself “shrinking to a small black dot” and then eventually she felt like “ a hole in the ground”. As Esther returns home, she sees her reflection in a mirror, she notices a “smudgy-eyed Chinese woman staring idiotically into my face. It was only me, of course.” Initially Esther fails to recognize her own reflection and the person her outer self has become, she says that she was “appalled to see how wrinkled and used up”. Her observations are commentary to her outer self, as she realizes that she is not Elly Higginbottom, thats not who she is. The light from…
I have been a member of the Catholic Church my entire life. Although I have often taken time to reflect on my faith, never once have I made an attempt to explore a religion aside from my own. Recently, I stepped outside of my comfort zone and was fortunate enough to visit a mosque. A mosque is a place of worship for followers of Islam, or one who is Muslim. There are a multitude of services I could have visited to experience a new religion, each with their own identity. The reason I ultimately chose to visit a mosque is because Muslims believe all life begins and ends with God, as do I. However, unlike Catholics, the Islamic religion does not believe Jesus Christ to be the Son of God, nor that he was crucified on the cross. My goal was to gain a better understanding of the beliefs Catholics and Muslims share, how they differ, and why. The experience was refreshing, and I feel as though I left the mosque with solid answers to my questions, and a new outlook on my own faith.…