The Lais of Marie de France offers an inquisitive perspective on the nature of love and the sacrifices one must make in relationships and marriage. While reading, I encountered many examples of a man and woman in love who must suffer for one another. This collection of narratives contains characters in relationships in which each partner suffers equally for one another and characters in which one partner sacrifices more than the other.…
There is a common theme in all Nicholas spark’s books and movies, and that is that each of the main female characters fit into the feminine ideology, there are all thin, white, have blonde or brown hair, great features, and much more. The women in the films are also the ones who are always falling for the dominant, hard-working, ‘masculine’ man, who is also depicted as very handsome with masculine traits. Of course, the men in the film usually end up breaking the girls heart during the middle of the story plot, but they always come back to them in the end, no matter all of the random deaths that occur in Nicholas Spark’s films, it is always a ‘happy ever after ending’. Each and every one of Spark’s films provides stereotypes of femininity as…
In many texts published in the fin-de-siècle, there are extreme class differences that effect various relationships in both forms of platonic love and romantic love. Within these relationships, it seems as though there are plenty of fantastical elements that come into play in order to reconcile these differences. Relationships in various stories need a specific element of fantasy to provide a bridge between relationships. Using examples from James, Chesnutt, Jewett, Norris, Wilde and Whitman, it can be seen that class differences can affect relationships to the point where fantasy is needed to resolve these issues.…
For centuries men have puzzled over the bond of women. Women share a lot in common with each other, not just physically but emotionally. They share their deepest secrets with their best friends, sisters or mother; never telling their husbands or other men in their life. Most men get jealous of their wife’s best friend because the friendship between two women is unlike any other. We see these bonds played out in “L’Amitie: To Mrs. M. Awbrey” by Katherine Philips and “Globlin Market” by Christina Rossetti. The bonds these females have with each other is strong and passionate, sacrificial even, making these alliances virtually indestructible.…
and identifies how gender roles or stereotypes are represented or challenged in a text. It is interested in how gender empowers or constrains characters in a text. HOW ARE MEN AND WOMEN OFTEN PORTRAYED DIFFERENTLY IN LITERATURE?…
The submissive natures of the main female characters result from society’s oppression of sectors. Although Caroline and Elizabeth both display qualities worthy of praise, they nevertheless succumb to the need for male protection. After witnessing Caroline’s mourning…
In the real world, problems and complications come up and happily ever after’s don’t exist. Sexton takes the classic story of “Cinderella”, reworks it, and makes it into her own twisted version of a fairytale. She starts the audience off with a few little “rags-to-riches” accounts comparing modern culture’s unrealistic dreams to what life really is like. Then she goes into telling the readers the famously known fairytale in a sardonic tone. The audience gets a sense of frustration from her way of expressing herself in each little story she talks about. She shows the world that its not always rainbows and butterflies, the real world is more complicated than that. Sexton’s “Cinderella” highlights despair and the delusions women have about love.…
Kate Chopin’s creation of the frail hearted Mrs. Mallard enlightens through irony and twists, about the servitude and acceptance of fate women in the nineteenth century faced regarding marriage. A life of independence outside of the constraints of marriage was a fantasy for women like Mrs. Mallard. When she is finally offered the opportunity and it was taken away from her abruptly, it leads to her literal heartbreak. Mrs. Mallard’s death showcased her unwillingness to return to her life of limitation that she’d been longing to escape, the irony of her broken heart, the exemplification of the lifestyle of women of the era, as well as the bittersweet undertone of marriage.…
Men enjoyed writing and reading about life at the high seas or the torturous days on the battle fields. Although women did commonly write about family life, emotions or feelings, it would be unfair to claim that women only wrote sentimental texts. Authors such as Chopin, Wharton, Cather and Gilman stretched the limits of sentimental texts and incorporated universal truths. “Women with literary ambition recognized that asserting the aesthetic value of their work depended on refusing what was perceived as the narrow, sentimental focus on home, hearth, and virtue” (Nolan 571). The women listed above knew they had to go beyond established stigmas, and stretch their boundaries to fit into the literary canon.…
In tragic plays it appears that women, more specifically mothers like Gertrude of Hamlet and Jocasta of Oedipus the King, are plagued by decisions that are made with good intentions, but end up destroying their lives and the lives of people around them. Women are also under the burden of strict societal expectations when it comes to the decisions they make. These two tragic plays illuminate a human being’s capacity for suffering. Gertrude and Jocasta both care deeply for their sons. However, this care unintentionally causes harm to both of the mothers and their sons. For these two women, marriage is regarded as a societal expectation. Under the societal norms of their time, they are required to marry people to preserve their kingdom. Also, in both of these tragic plays, Gertrude and Jocasta plays are largely characterized by their emotions. Lastly, it is evident that often times women inadvertently bring about the destruction and chaos that is central to the play. Jocasta and Gertrude both engage in decisions that may seem trivial, but end up being very important on a large scale.…
Male superiority and the subordination of women are sustained with the conformity of both men and women. The male domination seems to be a social norm accepted and followed by al people in the society. Men are showing their stereotyped perception on women, like Leonato jokes about his daughter as ‘Her mother hath many times told me so’ and Benedick ‘as being a professed tyrant to their sex’ implies their confirmed perception of women to justify their superiority in the society. Women are viewed as a possession and property of men that Benedick brings out the idea of purchase to ‘buy her that you inquire after her’. Women are linked with the image of cuckold when Benedick regards that ‘I will have a recheat winded in my forehead’ and ‘pluck off the bull’s horn and set them on forehead’. The idea of cuckold focuses on woman’s disloyalty that brings out the mentality of men that women are wicked as ‘beauty is a witch’ and women do not deserve as much as men do. With their stereotyped image, the male superiority is confirmed by men. On the other hand, the readiness of women shows that they conform to the male domination and willing to submit to men. Hero…
Women are portrayed as, “weak, submissive, dependent, and self-sacrificing, while men are powerful, active, and dominant” (Parsons). The heroine is not characterized by her bravery or her intelligence but rather naivete and beauty. Though often in obvious distress, either poisoned by the evil queen, or horrendously ridiculed by her stepmother, the heroine never does anything to appease her situation, rather remaining docile, “ ‘waiting for Prince Charming to to save the day’ ” (Patel). This notion of waiting for Prince Charming teaches children, in particular girls that they themselves have little to no power in righting their own situation and instead should be reliant on a male figure. Would girls like Magnolia stick up for themselves, or would she follow in her literary idol footsteps and remain in a dangerous situation until a male figure or a figure of authority intervened? Would an adult (whom are just as equally influenced by the rhetoric of fairytales) remain in a abusive relationship, because she believes Prince Charming will come and save…
In contrast, the short story “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid suggests that women are sentenced to patriarchy as a result of socially constructed gender stereotypes. She criticizes the idealized patriarchal norms and pressures which overshadow the lives of women. Starting early on in their childhood, little girls are explicitly exposed to the pressures and expectations of how they should live. As a result of gender stereotypes, young girls are brainwashed to believe that their role as a woman is a domestic homemaker and that they should always be kempt and maintain a feminine outer appearance. Kincaid ultimately criticizes how women and girls are trapped under a system of patriarchy that can not be erased.…
The theme of destructive love within a relationship that is seen in Shakespeare’s Macbeth, and Bronte's Wuthering Heights are presented through sexism, jealousy and betrayal. A lot of women are being used for their bodies and mind. Sexism plays a role within a relationship, in which women get hurt. Jealousy can be seen in both men and women, because each one can get jealous by almost anything. If betrayal is brought into a relationship, then the whole relationship is destined to be over. No one likes a man or a woman who has betrayed someone in the past.…
The presentation of relationships and marriage is a significant concept within literature and society. The writers of the three texts; ‘A Doll’s House’, ‘Wide Sargasso Sea’ and ‘The Worlds Wife’, explore the patriarchal ideal that was supported and reinforced by a social structure, wherein women had little political or economic power. They were economically, socially, and psychologically dependent on men, especially on the institutions of marriage and motherhood .On the other hand men struggled to increase their reputation in society by gaining social and economic power and status, in order to have a superior image and dominant character in relationship and marriage. In these literary texts women are presented to be obliged to obey men to some extent, therefore there is an explicit indication of relationships and marriage being overwhelming and shown to be an unequal relationship in literary texts such as ‘A Doll’s House’, ‘Wide Sargasso Sea’ and ‘The Worlds Wife’.…