Romeo And Juliet Freedom Analysis

It is common for parents to be concerned about their children’s teen years, with rebellion, mood swings, and poor decisions being frequent grievances. Parents dread this “phase” and enter it with trepidation while being urged by their teens to give them more freedom as a person. What parents don’t realize is that their incessant complaints regarding their children’s unbounded freedom can have a negative impact on them. Many teens hear these complaints and believe that their parents would not approve of their choices and they must navigate their personal issues without assistance. Hormones alone are not what guide teens’ seemingly irrational behavior, but the absence of constructive parental guidance, too much freedom, and the stress associated
By emphasizing Mercutio’s judging nature, Shakespeare conveys how teens need people who will not criticize or belittle their emotions and struggles. Shakespeare stresses the need for friendship with the relationship between Romeo and Juliet while at the same time showing how a teen’s judgement may not be mature enough without guidance from adults. At a time in their lives that they are expected to act as mature and independent adults, teens wrestle with many stressors such as grades and the social aspects of life. They are trapped in a fragile balance of school, social life, and downtime; one slip up could impact the rest of their life. In addition, teens are also encouraged by their parents to act like mature adults before they are ready to step into that particular role. Although Romeo and Juliet border on the age of marriage, I am still able to relate to their hardships and recognize the importance of having someone my age to rely on as a confidant. The most difficult aspect is deciding who will be your confidant with whom you shall share your thoughts and dreams. As Bob Marley said “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering