There is a saying: "God helps those who help themselves." Self-help is the best help. It is a heroic virtue. It gives us the spirit of self confidence and strength of mind. God has given us physical strength and intelligence enough to live a healthy life. So we should properly use these two important qualities in order to build up our life. Life itself has to be adequately planned beforehand.
Energy and strength have to be drawn to give it a proper shape. Strength is power in inherent elements found in a person. Now one has to utilise it properly by helping oneself.
No outside help can help one in a better way than one's own help. A person has to be alert, diligent thoughtful and disciplined enough to work out a successful plan of his own life. And the success is his.
It is also said, "Failures are the pillars of success" that means, experiences gained through repeated failures teach a faithful aspirant the way to success. So the person should not feel dispirited at his failures.
He should try again and again to reach his goal. His determination and perseverance will lead him to his goal today or tomorrow. And it is possible only by the spirit of self-help. Self-help makes a person perfect, ideal and confident in his life.
Self-help is an admirable quality'. It means not to invite any body's help for doing a work. Those who need the help of others in doing their works they lose their self-confidence. So, it is right to say that self-help increases self-confidence. Thus self-help is nothing but the habit of confidently standing on one's own legs.
We all should develop this habit of self-help. It is a sin to depend on others. God has given each of us two hands ' and two legs. These two hands and two legs are sufficient. To do any work. We lose our independence by calling others to help us. Others will not help us always. They may help us once or twice. If