Skip the Dishes? Not So Fast! Sex and Housework Revisited When a man and a woman love each other very much, they split household tasks to keep a balanced workload. This fairness may satisfy the couple in terms of efficiency, but it may not satisfy them sexually. Kornrich explains that what arouses us is based on our societal expectations of gender, generally the masculine or feminine behaviors expressed through action (2013, p. 31). For example, it is a common belief that the women maintain the household while the men do the more physically demanding tasks. With this understood, one can also understand that if the roles were switched for a day, the opposite effect should happen: the men seem more immaculate and the women seem more masculine, which decreases …show more content…
They dedicated the dangerous, difficult, and risky duties to the men, who, because of their seemingly athletic, were deemed more capable of taking care of themselves; women, however, were seen as delicate, and already came with maternal instincts, so their general purpose was to maintain the household and raise the children. These roles have been passed down for generations, introduced to children at the stages in their lives where they learn to adapt to the societal norms. This concept is known as the relational developmental systems perspective (Lerner, Agans, DeSouza, & Gasca,