Shanaz Rhetorical Analysis
Young ,beautiful, unique, talented, artsy, dughtifull, goal-drivin´. All those words are adjectives that a person could possibe use for discribing Shanaz. A teenager, barely an adult who is now married to a relative, older but at the same time more childish than her. Shanaz is a muslim and in order of reaching her goal, an art degree, did she make an compromise. She agreed to an arranged marriage. She agreed to marry a complete stranger.
For a person brought up in a western country, used to having barely boundaries, this will seem quit strange. We are used to controlling our own personal life but wouldn´t there be a lot of positive consequences as well, if somebody else would choose for us? How would it affect our life afterwards and …show more content…
If a women wants to have children the pressure is even bigger because they aren´t getting younger and their biological clock is ticking...
We all want to find the perfect match for ourselves, for sharing our life with someone, for having someone to share our problems with. If our parents would choose our partner we probably wouldn´t feel the pressure. We wouldn´t have problems with the acceptance of the new parents in-law. Everybody, in both families, would try to make it as comfortable as possible. This would make the life easier because the familyacceptance is for most persons really important. Not for no reason is the saying "Blood is thicker than water" popular in nearly every language.
Humans often choose a person as a soulmate, who is having a similar backround. They can understand the other person somehow better and they probably have learned the same values during their childhood. A shared backround is also one of the most important standards for the parents while searching a future husband/wife for their …show more content…
They are thinking that they are capable of counquering all problems together and couldn´t imagine a life without the other person. In an arranged marriage it is different though. The elders believe that the love will grow with time between the match. But how likely is it, to find your soulmade in somebody you´ve never met before? It it more likely that there won´t ever be attraction. You could say the spark would be missing. This could lead to a boring but at the same time safe marriage. If you never trouly loved your partner you can´t get hurt as much
For a person brought up in a western country, used to having barely boundaries, this will seem quit strange. We are used to controlling our own personal life but wouldn´t there be a lot of positive consequences as well, if somebody else would choose for us? How would it affect our life afterwards and …show more content…
If a women wants to have children the pressure is even bigger because they aren´t getting younger and their biological clock is ticking...
We all want to find the perfect match for ourselves, for sharing our life with someone, for having someone to share our problems with. If our parents would choose our partner we probably wouldn´t feel the pressure. We wouldn´t have problems with the acceptance of the new parents in-law. Everybody, in both families, would try to make it as comfortable as possible. This would make the life easier because the familyacceptance is for most persons really important. Not for no reason is the saying "Blood is thicker than water" popular in nearly every language.
Humans often choose a person as a soulmate, who is having a similar backround. They can understand the other person somehow better and they probably have learned the same values during their childhood. A shared backround is also one of the most important standards for the parents while searching a future husband/wife for their …show more content…
They are thinking that they are capable of counquering all problems together and couldn´t imagine a life without the other person. In an arranged marriage it is different though. The elders believe that the love will grow with time between the match. But how likely is it, to find your soulmade in somebody you´ve never met before? It it more likely that there won´t ever be attraction. You could say the spark would be missing. This could lead to a boring but at the same time safe marriage. If you never trouly loved your partner you can´t get hurt as much