The exploration of what it means to be human is heavily focused on in Jonathan Safran Foer’s Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close. The story follows a nine-year-old boy whose father died in the 9/11 attacks as he struggles to find some reason behind it, wondering along the way about existence and, more importantly, human emotion. All humans experience a range of emotions, from happiness to anger and everything in between. One of the most prominent human experiences is loss and the grief that follows it. The grieving process presents itself in many ways, and it is different for everyone. Through examining the text via formalism, which focuses solely on the text itself and not on the author on any other element, it becomes clear that the varying ways of mourning and receiving closure are well represented. The setting, plot, and structure used in the text all tie together the examination of grief as part of what it means to be human—everyone deals with grief, but each person must find a way to do so.…
Those had been frightening days, stuck to her bedroom with only her thoughts and the drone of the rain to keep her company. At fifteen she was barely a teenager, and had never met Samuel and so did not know what to expect. She had heard stories however that terrified her, stories that kept her up at night. From seeing her father she knew what some men were capable of. She also was aware of the crimes Samuel had become involved in, which did nothing to enhance her expectations of him.…
1. The story begins with a paragraph about Jimmy Cross and his relationship with Martha. What does Martha represent to Cross? Why might it be significant that Cross obsesses about whether or not she is a virgin? How does Cross’s feelings for Martha change toward the end of the story, and how does this change point the way to one of the themes of the story?…
Grief and loss are vital elements in this novel. Not only is Tom’s family grieving the loss of a loved one, Tom’s uncle Joe who died in the London underground bombings 2 years earlier, but there are other forms of grief portrayed within the text. Tom grieves the absence of his family. After the death of his Uncle, his father turned to drink, his mother left, his father left. Tom closed himself off from the world; his friends, family and the girl he loved.…
For me I would say that my dad is not supportive to me. My mom and my dad they divorced and then my mom married another person which is the one I live with now. I feel really good with my stepdad, and my mom is happy. My biological dad to me, it just the memories from the past that I hate. I would like to forget about the past memories and it would be easy for me to become a different person. He is the one that I will not ask any help and any supports…
Her parents were strict Catholic and raised Maureen and her siblings within the Catholic religion; they even attended Catholic schools. This faith would prove to be a vital source of strength for her family in the years to come. When asked about her earliest memory, Maureen seemed to be very emotional while answering this question, as it was a difficult time in her early childhood. “I can remember back to about the age of four, which would have been 1935”, Maureen said. “My first childhood memory is the death of my father. I was four years old, my younger sister was three, and my brother was six. I remember seeing my father lying in a coffin in our living room, my mother and brother crying, and people with food coming to our house. I also remember having to move from our home to another town and living in a small apartment after my father died”. This memory points to early struggle in her life, as well as the difference in our generations. Today, no one would find it appropriate to have a family member lie in repose in their…
When my step father committed suicide, it was the most shocking yet influential experience of my life. The whole situation expanded my understanding of mortality, spirituality, and of just how fragile happiness is. I can still remember the day that it happened; It was unlike any other day. I was in school when brother picked me up after lunch. We met up with my mother, and brother at my grandmother's house. The entire atmosphere was off. No one was acting like themselves. Immediately I knew something was wrong, even if their expressions and body language were not obvious enough. After sitting in the living room for what seemed like an eternity, I went into the next room where I found my mother who was crying, and when I asked what was wrong…
A fourteen year old boy whose closest connection in the middle of the Montana farm lands is his father who takes him bars. His father may have an idea of what his wife had been doing but Jackie was dragged into the middle of a conflict he didn’t even know was developing. So how is a fourteen year old boy meant to react after watching his father nearly shoot a man and having his mother walk away from the family? He comforts his father saying, “It’ll be all right” (544). It won’t really be alright but it’s also not the end of the world. Jackie knows “things seldom end in one event” and acts in a very placating manner when he goes to visit his mother (544). When his mother says she didn’t sleep and asks if he did he responds that he didn’t, even “though [he] had slept all night” because he knows empathy will make the situation easier (545). He didn’t try to make up excuses or yell at his mother or beg for an explanation because “[he] knew there was nothing [he] could say to change the way her life would be from then on. And [he] kept quiet” (546). And what other thoughts could occupy his mind on the walk back to the school but the “thought [he] could take the bus home if [he] got there by three” (546). Jackie may dealing with more conflict than a fourteen year old should. He recognizes that “[his] life had turned suddenly, and that [he] might not know exactly how or which way for possibly a long time. Maybe, in fact, [he] might never…
The narrator is doubtful, and brave. He’s lived a hard, neglectful life and now he is deeply scarred emotionally. In brief moments of revealing his sensitivity, the narrator implies, “My parents. It’s not like I hate them or anything. I just can’t see them. I can close my eyes and form my sister’s face behind my eyelids, but not my parents’ faces. Where their eyes should meet mine, nothing” (128). His distant relationship…
-Dad’s “shoulders and head shook from the deep sobs that came from down inside him” “I realized how badly hurt he was, as badly as me” (Bell, 12)…
Ma had tried her hardest to keep Jack safe under the circumstances that they had. Ma had rituals and a schedule they stuck to on a regular basis in Room. The television allowance in Room was limited and he thought everything on television was on another planet. Jack had been used to the schedule that Ma had set up for them. Ma had health issues because she did not have the resources that she needed and had to take meds for her condition. Jack had never gotten to know Old Nick because Old Nick would always come at night and Jack would have to be asleep at that time. Old Nick had given Ma and Jack a Sunday Treat but only on Sundays and Jack would ask for things such as a beach ball or books. When Jack had turned five Ma had realized that Jack was old enough to leave Room.…
First, the treatment of the old man is symbolic to the narrator 's incest. Throughout, the story the narrator treats the old man as the narrator was treated many years ago. The character explains how at night time he carefully thrusts his head into the door and watches the old man. This passage is a direct reflection of how the narrator stalks the old man while he sleeps. The night the murder takes place the narrator wakes the old man and scares him. The narrator later explains this is a feeling he has felt and he is glad the old man feels scared. The reader can conclude that the old man has scared the narrator. The narrator is satisfied with making the old man scared. He wants the old man to feel as he did before the molestation. The narrator uses his head to invade the old man 's personal space as the old man has done to him. The narrator drags the old man out of bed and then puts the bed on top of him before he murders the old man. This suggest the narrator does this because it is in the bed that the molestation occurs. Therefore taking the old man out of the bed is the narrators way of getting…
This trauma was something she would have to deal with for a big part of her life. While in her recovery process, she would have to learn how to let go of the fear of someone coming into her room and touching her while she was sleeping; and also learn how to sleep with the door unlocked, and even eventually with it open. The physical pain she would develop in her childhood would last a lifetime, from curling up…
It is 3am in the morning when a police officer spots a group of juveniles in a public park. The police officer and his partner approach the juveniles and find that they have been drinking. When the officers begin to question the fifteen year old, he replies with obscenities and spits at them. Rather then taking the juveniles down to the station, the officer decides to phone the juvenile's parents to make them aware of where they are and what they are doing. To the officer's surprise when the mother of the juvenile answers the phone, her reply is, "Oh, they're just out having fun and I have to work tomorrow, Can't you just drive them home?" What is most disturbing about this story is that this is a common event; this story is based on an actual event as evidenced by netcops.com. Why are today's children not being taught basic manners, and the difference between right and wrong? Where have all the parents gone? In order to answer these questions it is necessary to explore the history of the American Family.…
I believe in cherishing your loved ones before they leave you forever. It seems that all thought your childhood you believe that your loved ones will never die. “Grandpa will never die” I thought when I was younger. It turns out I was very wrong. He was diagnosed with stomach cancer when I was 8. When I was 9, his cancer progressed and the doctors had to take out his stomach. He had to be fed through a tube in his stomach just so he could live. He suffered so much and was in so much pain. I remember looking into his eyes and seeing so much pain and sadness. I cried every night because of how much pain he went through. When he died, I wouldn’t talk to anybody besides my little sister. He was one of my closest friends, I would sit with him as he played sudoku, talking and laughing about life. Around the time when he died, that’s when my depression started. I couldn't concentrate on anything, eat, or sleep, my mind was filled with the thoughts of my grandpa and I found myself falling into a deep depression. His death impacted my life so much. His death caused me to lose many nights of…