praised? I think not, this kind of attitude not only leads kids to expect a reward for any effort given but also make receiving a trophy worthless. According to dictionary.com, trophies are a symbol of success or achievement.
If everyone gets a trophy no matter what, then what is the point of trying to overachieve or stand out. Trophies will become meaningless and useless because no matter what the participant's skill level is or how many games they win, everyone will receive the same exact trophy. So why even try? Is it because it puts a smile on their face? Or is it because it gives them self-esteem? If we as a parent are expecting a small simple glass, metal or plastic trophy to build self-esteem or motivation towards your kids then I am afraid to tell you that you are giving those prizes way too much accountability. Children are fed with many false expectations and it hinders them from maturing. Therefore, it is important to let them face reality and receive no participation trophy because when you are no longer there, they will not know how to handle
it. I'm not saying it is a hundred percent bad, kids who are in elementary school build their self-confidence and happiness around trophies. They feel accomplished for staying committed and hardworking throughout the season "participation trophies remind young kids that they are part of something, and may help build enthusiasm to return for another season" claimed Lisa, but I believe after elementary school, teachers and adults need to stop giving out participation trophies to kids. Children needs to experience loss and learn the lessons that comes with it, such as, hard work, dedication, and a good understanding of what is happening.