Fewer kids play amid pressure.” by Machael Rosenwald, the author addresses an issue widely faced by many children. Quitting sports because of the pressure their parents put on to them to keep playing to hopefully become a professional “elite athlete”. A survey was taken to see what the top factors contributing to kids happiness was. The results helped to prove the fact that children aren’t in games for winning or being the best. This is proven when the article reads, “...low on the list: playing in tournaments, cool uniforms and expensive equipment. High on the list: positive team dynamics, trying hard, positive coaching and learning”(Rosenwald 3). As this shows, children enjoy not being pushed to constantly be the best. Instead, they prefer being encouraged and not being forced into…
Many children that compete in youth sports receive trophies for their participation. The question is, are these trophies leaving a positive or a negative impact towards children. Supporting participation trophies, Lisa Heffernan states that it does teach children good values with her argument titled “In Defense of Participation Trophies”. Opposing participation trophies, Vivian Diller states that it does not prepare children for the real world with her argument titled “Do We All Deserve Gold? Setting Kids up to Fail”.…
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Not to mention they have to do nothing, Kids don’t try as hard at sports. For kids to get a trophy now-a-days they only have to show up to the practices and games. They don’t have to do anything except participate in the games. Also in addition to kids doing nothing, It’s unfair for those kids that actually want to try and get better instead of getting a trophy. For some teams when kids don’t try the coaches have permission to say they can’t…
Should everyone get a participation trophy? According to the "trophy's for all" policy, youth athletes are being awarded trophys for participating in a sport. Trophy's shouldn’t be given to everyone. Participation trophy's lose their meanings at times. People don’t get promotions for just showing up. On the other hand parents and coaches think that participation trophy's are motivating to youth athletes. Handing out trophies is a waste of time if youth athletes are not going to put in the effort to at least earn the trophy.…
Rewarding Mediocrity is dangerous, especially with kids, because it will shape their expectation to be winning trophies in everything they attend. Because as a kid, they will ask themselves “ I have achieved this big trophy, why don’t I have this one?” and over the time there will be 2 things can happen. One is this kid will have a mindset of winning and have narcissistic about themselves about being number one, then when they attend a true competition or selective events, they will extremely disappointed and criticize with themselves hardly if they’re not a winner or if this kid is actually a top performance and see what they get is exactly the same with who did not try, they will ask themselves “why I need to work hard while what I…
Do you do things for the fun of it or for a prize? Many kids think they should get a trophy. Parents think otherwise they think getting a trophy is sending the wrong message. Trophies aren’t for everyone and everything, because trophies lose their meaning if everyone gets one, also trophies aren’t effective ways for coaches to bribe the team to do better, and you should do things for fun not for a prize.…
Receiving a participation trophy does not teach kids to accept losing. If a child keeps getting a reward for everything they do they will start to anticipate the awards. The Keller youth association (KYA) from Keller,Texas states ´´ Trophies are something you should strive to earn. Life does not just give you a participation job or medal, life makes you earn everything you get.’ ‘Participation trophies are not sending the right message to kids. Michele Borba an educational psychologist and TODAY contributor said ´´ Kids see through it, they…
When youth athletes receive participation trophies, this does not teach them about the real world and how to deal with it. Kids need to understand the difference between winning and losing, which is a very important life lesson. According to the article "Pros & Cons: A Look Art Participation Trophies For Young Athletes"…
Clearly, I have given my counter argument. I believe that playing sports will get you a trophy you shouldn’t. That’s why I’m explaining my counter argument. I will hope that they stop giving these away for not earning anything and simply being handed a…
Giving a participation trophy to these young athletes for everything they do in life, can teach them that they will get a reward for doing what is required. There shouldn't be a promise of getting a reward at the end for doing what is told. Instead, there should be a reward for doing what isn't told, but is required. Mentioned in "The Great Trophy Debate; Do We Need Participation Awards?" By John…
Participation trophies give kids an excuse to not give it their all 100% of the time.…
Some would argue that having all the kids get a trophy is showing the kid that they completed the season and that they did good, In reality the trophy is for getting through the season with hard work and doing good. Not for doing bad. Remember the next time kids go and play a game and get a trophy, Think! The kids lives will not work like that in the future, and the trophies will not be as important when everyone gets one. Everyone shouldn’t get trophies. Instead of having everyone get a trophy, the people who try should get the trophy. Talk to a coach…
What goes through a child’s mind when they receive a trophy? Is it how hard they worked to be recognized or that they are just being a part of a group? In society there is an arising opinion that not all children participating in activities should receive a trophy. According to Reasons-Rupe Poll, “57 percent of Americans say only winning, and deserving kids should receive awards. Another 40 percent say all kids on a sports team should receive a trophy for their participation” (Ekins). These views are a result of many children showing a feeling of entitlement, an increased cost of programs, and lack of ambition.…
Should children get ribbons, medals, trophies whether they win or lose? When you grow up you most likely have seen changes in sports. A lot of us participate in extracurricular sports. Such as basketball, football, softball, volleyball, etc. Playing we realized how much it hurt to lose, while we watched the other team celebrate their win. Everyone learns how to cope with winning and losing at points in their life. At this time it really seems like a lot of kids that play a sport will win a medal, ribbon, or trophy for playing no matter if they won or lost.…