Cathy replied that there were hundreds of events that taught her a lesion that got her to this point in her life, when she was asked if there was one event in her life that she though made a huge difference in her life and tough her a lesion that got her though her life this far. After talking about several events in her life that taught her how to get though the hard times she decided that too many people rely on the negative events and overlook the life changing event that were happy and scary millstone in her life. She desired that the day she got married and became someone’s wife was the event that though her to deal with transitions though out her life. In the late summer of the year 1972 Cathy made a choice that would forever change her life forever, she married Daniel Bevin. It was a simple wedding in a small church where she had grown up. They had wanted to have get married in the fall, though had changed their minds at the last minute because Cathy had wanted to have all of her sibling at her wedding and her older brother was going to have to be shipped off again soon. “I stud there with my dad, in my mother’s wedding dress waiting for the music to start. My dad the strongest man I had ever know looked at me with tears in his eyes and said he could not believe that I was already getting married. He held tight to me as he said this as if at any secant I was just going to …show more content…
It was difficult to go from being just a kid who only had to worry about school and following my parent’s rules to being someone that was respondable for a house and a husband. I was a tarable cook at first.” () Cathy laughed as she said this. Cathy then goes on to talk about how she it took her almost two years to get the hang of being a wife. She belives that it was this hard adjustment at such a young age that has made her able to adjust though the ruf patch in her