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SOCIAL NORM # 1
Social Norm:
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Wear Clothes Forward
Rationale:
Clothes are made to wear forward with the tag in the back. They are designed to fit one way.
SOCIAL NORM VIOLATION #1
Wear Clothes Backwards
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Hooded Sweatshirt and Jeans
Occurred on Wednesday at Wal-Mart from 6:30pm – 7:15pm.
Walked around the grocery department Walked around the health and beauty care department Walked around the electronics department
REACTIONS TO SOCIAL NORM VIOLATION#1
Other’s Reactions
Many people stared. An elderly woman shook her head at me. A group
of teens said nice clothes and snickered.
Own Reactions
Felt very uncomfortable physically and mentally. Extremely embarrassed by people’s looks and comments Never did adjust to wearing clothes that way. I could not wait to turn them back around.
SOCIAL NORM # 2
Social Norm:
Do not drink alcohol during pregnancy.
Rationale:
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Alcohol consumption can harm the unborn child.
SOCIAL NORM VIOLATION #2
Wore a pregnant belly suit to a restaurant and ordered a beer.
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Occurred Friday from 7:00pm – 8:15pm at Don Pablo’s Restaurant.
Got seated in the middle of the restaurant. Once the waitress asked what she could get us to drink, I responded with a Miller Lite.
REACTIONS TO SOCIAL NORM VIOLATION#2
Other’s Reactions
Waitress walked over to another waitress and they both looked at me. I am assuming she was asking if she should bring me a beer. The wife at the table next to us was staring at me.
Own Reactions
Very nervous even before ordering Extremely uncomfortable Felt like a terrible person and mother Mortified when the waitresses were obviously talking about me.
EVALUATION AND SUMMARY
Social Norm Violations affect:
Violated Violator
Social Norm Violations cause extreme discomfort for everyone affected. When you violate a social norm, you are frowned upon by society. It is much easier to go with a social norm than it is to violate it.