In a traditional society, Edna feels stuck between what is right for her and what makes society happy. She is expected to be a good wife and mother, however; she falls short of this…
Edna was not going to sacrifice herself or her happiness anymore for others. Not for her husband, her children, her fellow friends: Madame Lebrun and Madame Ratignolle, or even the love of her life, Robert. She loved herself too much and felt herself too important to stay confined to a role that didn’t fit who she was as a person. Edna came to this realization through a series of different experiences: her relationship with Robert, her friendship with Mademoiselle Reisz, and her developing artistic ability for painting. Edna realized that she couldn’t be herself and be happy, and still “remember the children.” She no longer wanted to be possessed mind, body, and soul. In the end, she would only be sad, alone, frustrated, and unhappy. So she came to the realization that she had to kill herself and accepted that fact.…
Edna’s independence causes familial tension. Edna’s resistance to her husband’s orders angers Leonce. For example, when Mr. Pontellier learns that Edna did not stay at home for her regular Tuesday reception, he screams and says she had to continue the…
In addition to her sexual awakening, Edna also was determined to remove herself from her traditional occupation as a mother and transfer into something more individualistic such as painting. Although being a painter was not like being a retail clerk or office typist as many other modern women in Edna’s era became, this hobby demonstrates Edna’s dissimilarities from other upper-class mothers during her time. For example, in comparison to Madame Ratignolle who preferred to spend her summers sewing winter clothing for her children, Edna saw no “use of anticipating and making winter night garments” (Chopin). It is this desire to fulfill her own needs that allows Mrs. Pontellier to drop her former motherhood duties and pick up her paint brushes…
In the novel The Awakening, the main protagonist Edna represents the character that undergoes change, and has the awakening as referred to in the title. In the first section of the novel, Edna is unsure of her thoughts and actions regarding marriage, her role in the world, and her life in general. In chapter 6, she has an awakening, shown when the narrator announces, “A certain light was beginning to dawn dimly within her, - the light which, showing the way, forbids it” (17). This quote illustrates a major theme in Edna’s life and in the novel, which is change. After chapter 6, the reader and Edna both realize Edna is dissatisfied with her marriage and the limited, conservative lifestyle it allows. This idea is amplified thoroughly later in…
One of the main struggles of a woman’s role she faces is over motherhood. Edna loves her children, however, she wants to find her identity and she feels her children hold her back. Even her children do not view her as nurturing,…
During their talk in chapter 7, Edna also tells Adele something about her feelings for her children. Edna loves her children but feels weighed down with a responsibility that is suited to her nature. She feels relief when they are away. Edna is not a “mother-woman” like the women that surround her on the island, and their children, when they fall over and hurt themselves, do not rush to her as other women's children do, but they merely pick themselves up and carry on playing. Although Mr. Pontellier is therefore not able to point the finger towards any definite dereliction of duty as a mother, the way that Edna is obviously so different from the other mothers with them that summer highlights that she has a very different kind of relationship…
The story of the buck by Joyce Carol Oates is about two interesting characters that are discovering things about themselves. I like the fact that the Melanie Snyder has realized her femininity. While on the other hand Wayne Kunz is very masculine and prideful of himself. We learn that Melanie femininity is concealed because of her finace.…
As Edna neglects her social reputation and duties by having affairs, she seems to become an independent woman whose power is guided by love, but she soon crashes through this dream as reality kicks in that she still has a family that she must take care of and expectations to reach. Robert realizes this, which is why he leaves, but seeing her lover float away, Edna loses her fight for control and thus decides to take her own life, sadly much like how many other people in society decide to deal with their problems. If one is going to fight for control and rebel against expectations, he or she must be prepared for the…
two identities until she awakens to the fact that she needs to be an individual,…
Edna faces this struggle with her husband, Mr. Pontellier because she feels like he controls her. After her first awakening experience, Edna’s husband demands that she come inside and go to bed and it is noted that, “She wondered if her husband had ever spoken to her like that before, and if she had submitted to his command. Of course she had; she remembered that she had. But she could not realize why or how she should have yielded, feeling as she then did.” This realization that her husband used to control her and Edna’s refusal to continue obeying him demarks the first steps she takes toward taking control of her own life. The second prominent example of blatant disregard for her husband’s wishes is when Edna moves into her own house. No longer wishing to live in her husband’s house, she moves to her own as the narrator points out, “The pigeon-house pleased her. It at once assumed the intimate character of a home, while she herself invested it with a charm… Every step which she took toward relieving herself from obligations added to her strength and expansion as an individual.” This validates Edna’s desire to be free from her former life and highlights the fact that she is only able to truly flourish when she is on her own. Sadly, one must be willing to give up relationships in order to fully achieve this sense of…
To me, Edna is quite an interesting character in the story “The Awakening.” Given that this novella took place during the late 19th century, Edna ambitious and courageous strength to act on her needs and desire is a remarkable trait. Even so, she knows she is restricted due to society implementation on women, and this conflict between a strive for her awakening and her knowledge of her restrictions drives the plot of the story. To me, Mademoiselle Reisz and Adele Ratigonolle is a symbolic representation of her life depending on the choice she could of taken. Due to this, Mademoiselle and Adele serve as a foil for each other.…
At first Ms. Mallard reacted to the tragic news of her husband’s death with the typical performance of a grieving widow but buried deep underneath the sorrow was something “too subtle and elusive to name.” It finally dawned on Ms. Mallard; in addition to her newly found feelings of guilt and fear that she has just acquired her previously unobtainable freedom. The death of her husband triggered her to reflect on what she truly wanted in life. She found joy in knowing that she could make her own decisions and looked forward to a future with endless self-appointed opportunities and unobligated experiences, instead of having her life dictated by oppression of a marriage in her era of time.…
The reason why we experience different effects of our escapes is because of the different pressures we feel from society. Society played a strong role in the cause for Edna’s escape in The Awakening, when societies norms and rules caused Edna to feel suppressed. The societal norm that women take care of the household and family was not of any interest to Edna, but she was forced to uphold these duties because of how her husband and society both would disapprove of her actions should she not comply. When Edna escaped these responsibilities, multiple characters told her to return to societies ways, and to stop going against such societal norms by going back and caring for her children. However, such pressures from her peers to return to how things used to be was too much for Edna, as she didn’t want to return that way of life, but also didn’t want her children to grow up without a mother or with a mother with an awful reputation. Because Edna couldn’t do either without sacrificing her freedom or her family, she decided to drown herself, as she couldn’t bear to live a life with freedom while sacrificing her family or living for her family with no freedom at all. This kind of situation is similar to the real world in how society can push people to commit suicide with its many rules that oppress us as people and the freedom we have in how we can act or conduct ourselves. Such societal pressures cause people to take the easy way out, by escaping their problems. “Because it’s easier, because [you] don’t / [have] to think” (Halperin 2-3) such escapes are caused. Not all escapes caused by societies pressures end in death, but it is one effect of such escapes. Another effect of societies pressure or rules can be seen in how Ma is looked at as odd when she continues to breastfeed Jack at the age of five and when Jack is scolded for touching his cousin’s private parts.…
Susan was a stay at home mother and housewife who seemed to have the perfect life that every woman dreamt of. She had the big white house, with the beautiful garden and four lovely children to take care of while her “… handsome, blonde, attractive, manly man…” of a husband was off at work (Lessing 418). Susan stayed at home with the children but soon became unhappy with her life, and felt very confined. She would isolate herself, which soon escalated into her booking a room every week at a hotel outside of town just so that she could be alone and away from her family. Susan could not shake this feeling of being trapped in the stereotypical roles she was forced to play, and she felt that her only way out was by death.…