Solutions for Some Chronic Problems in Teen Relationships

Celine Manning

September 5, 2013

Solutions for Some Chronic Problems in teen relationships

Teens on our generation face problems that are morally overwhelming and challenging. As teens continue having relationships, they will continue having problems or issues. As Teens continue trying to meet social expectations they will continue having problems. Overcoming teen related problems is a process. Some problems teens face are Weight problem, image and other health issues, Sex and Teenage pregnancy, Drug and Alcohol and Dating and relationships.

Weight problem, image and other health issues

Teen years you will notice discover changes in the way you look. Puberty brings on physical and emotional changes that many teens struggle with. Teens often place a high value on their appearance which can result in a teen comparing themselves to peers and not liking what they find. There are many issues that teens deal with in terms of body image issues, and being prepared for them can make them easier to get through. If a person has high self-esteem, they are better able to live a healthy and productive life. However, low self-esteem can result in conditions that endanger a teens health and wellbeing ( Hill mark) The media can influence self-esteem by portraying a person's value based on her looks, and this is especially influential during the teen years. Teasing by classmates can negatively affect a teen's self-esteem. Body image issues can lead to eating disorders[pic] in teens with negative self-esteem regarding their looks. Anxiety over appearance can often increase eating disordered behavior since it can provide the teen with a sense of control over part of her life. Over a quarter of the teens in the world are overweight and this has made them weak and unhealthy. Plus most teenagers suffer from skin problems causing acne, blemishes, dark circles, pimples and blackheads. Most teenagers also suffer from insomnia.(Hill Mark)

Everybody teenager have something they want to change about them when it comes down to how they look dress or even talk these are called insecurities can cause mental damage on someone Self-esteem people with high self-esteem are said to live healthier rather than people with low self-esteem overcoming insecurity is mostly about self-acceptance once you accept the way you are your world will feel like a better place always remember nobody's perfect and God created everyone differently socialize yourself around a peer group that everybody except your individuality and uniqueness How can we overcome insecurities, try different sports and get active. Socialize with people who accept you for your personality and not only based on physical appearance and looks. Think of Positive affirmations about yourself. Say to yourself everyday IM beautiful the way I am. Things like that will boost your self-esteem. Sex and Teenage pregnancy and we can prevent and overcome As teenagers are given more freedom in today's world, and due to the fact that there are plenty of opportunities for them to spend time alone and away from the adults, engaging in sexual activities is very common among them, thus resulting in teen pregnancy as well as contracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs). TV and Internet can also said to be a source for such problems that allow teenagers to view such acts at a much premature age. (Durham Gigi) Teenage pregnancy is a socially, economically, physically and emotionally complex issue. With serious consequences at stake, ways of preventing teen pregnancy should be a high priority. Abstinence from sex (oral, anal or vaginal) is the only behavior that is 100 percent effective at preventing teenage pregnancy. abstinence from sex is the best choice for teens as it avoids early pregnancy, parenthood and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Planned Parenthood reminds teens that remaining abstinent is a behavior choice and it can be difficult for some people. Besides abstinence, using contraception during sexual intercourse can also prevent teenage pregnancy. Whether using barrier or hormonal methods, contraception can help to avoid pregnancy. is because their partners did not want to. Educating teens about contraceptive methods may help to change attitudes and behaviors toward safer sex practices. (Allen, Colin)

Preventing teenage pregnancy may also come down to overcoming parent-child communication barriers. Parents influence their decisions about sex, love and relationships the most; even more than the media or their peers. Starting a conversation about sex early and often may prove beneficial. This conversation should ideally begin well before a child's teen years. (Durham Gigi) While some teens are considering waiting until marriage to engage in sexual activities are actually having sex and getting sexually transmitted diseases it also getting pregnant most teams were actually having sex doesn't know the dangers if he cautions of them but the team who are not having sex no the dangers of them that's why they are not engaging in sexual activities the word sex is used everywhere in music in television and even in video games that's why teens being you have to do it because it's influenced everywhere the see it everywhere pregnancy becoming a mother or father is a difficult and challenging pass that's why you must wait until you are married and financially stable in till you have children teenagers not think before they do will most of them that is why we have peanut pregnancy teen pregnancy can easily be prevented by abstinence or using a condom. Drug and Alcohol prevent and overcome Most teenagers, due to increased peer pressure and freedom also engage and get addicted to drugs such as cigarettes, marijuana and heroin, and also booze with their friends. Substance abuse can lead to serious problems such as poor schoolwork, loss of friends, problems at home, and lasting legal problems. Alcohol and drug abuse is a leading cause of teen death or injury related to car crashes, suicides, violence, and drowning. Substance abuse can increase the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, because of unprotected sex. Even occasional alcohol use by a teen increases the risk for future alcohol and drug problems. (Jaffe Jefferson) Alcohol and drugs are the most widely used mind altering substance in the United States teen don't consume alcohol because they need it because you wouldn't because school is everybody doing the consumption of drugs and alcohol on encouraged by advertisement social expectations and peer pressure many teens drink and drive and that is the cause of most deaths. we can overcome drug and alcohol abuse by simply saying the word no I think about the negative effects the alcohol and drug can do to you How can we overcome and prevent drug abuse? Well start off by first Keep your eyes open; watch for signs of drug use in your family .Develop healthy family communication so your teens know that they can talk to you about anything. Set limits and consistently enforce them. This makes it easier for teens to say "NO" when pressured by peers. Help your teens feel good about themselves; build up their self-esteem with support, praise, and love, so they respect themselves and want to reach their dreams. Serve as a good role model. If you have a drug or alcohol abuse problem, get help for yourself. Help teens to make wise decisions based upon their own beliefs. Encourage them to say "NO" and avoid unhealthy situations. Encourage teens to choose positive friendships. Give teens the support they need to do their best in school. Help teens deal with failure so they learn to cope without wanting to escape with drugs. If you have problems knowing what to do, check your area's high schools, community colleges, or local hospitals to see if there are any parenting classes or lectures being offered. (Jaffe Jefferson) Dating and relationships Teenage years are those years where you meet friends, associate them and even fall in love. During these years, you may experience break ups, resistance from parents on relationships, getting beaten up, bad image and even sexual exploitation. As a result of this, most teenagers end up messing up their exams, studies and future, due to depression. (Durham, M. Gigi) Teenagers want to feel loved and the go out there way to seek it. Especially if you don’t get love at home your willingness will increase to find love. Many teenagers don’t know what real true love there blinded by all the long talks on the phone and occasional hang outs. Teens dating can be dangerous but some relationships can be abusive not only physically but mentally and verbally. There many aspects in relationships and dating that can negatively affect you. For instance, cheating, lying, abusing, dishonesty and more. How to overcome relationships and dating problem is simply time if you go through a heart break support from friends and family will help and time will also help you overcome. To prevent just simply don’t involve yourself in relationships. Teens on our generation face problems that are morally overwhelming and challenging. As teens continue having relationships, they will continue having problems or issues. Some problems teens face are Weight problem, image and other health issues, Sex and Teenage pregnancy, Drug and Alcohol and Dating and relationship. All these issues can be dealt with by preventing them from getting worse or more severe

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