In all her relationships, Sotomayor asks herself “what can I learn here? What qualities in this friend, this mentor, even this rival are worth emulating” (357). At Princeton, Sotomayor leans on others more than ever; for example, when she feels ill-cultured, Sotomayor asks her friend to “guide [her] thoughtfully toward a long lists of classics” (171). When, she fails to successfully complete her psychology experiment, Sotomayor is up front and garners the respect of her professor. He declares that “not every experiment is a success” (166) and takes mercy on her due to her earnest request for help. Even after Princeton, Sotomayor continues to seek the help of others, finding a mentor in José Cabranes. He eventually offers her a job, jump-starting her career. Finally, the help of Dave Botwinik, starts Sotomayor’s judicial career, as he continually pushes her to apply as a judge. Through these experiences, Sotomayor learns “it’s better to accept a gift with ‘Thank you’ than ‘You shouldn’t have”
In all her relationships, Sotomayor asks herself “what can I learn here? What qualities in this friend, this mentor, even this rival are worth emulating” (357). At Princeton, Sotomayor leans on others more than ever; for example, when she feels ill-cultured, Sotomayor asks her friend to “guide [her] thoughtfully toward a long lists of classics” (171). When, she fails to successfully complete her psychology experiment, Sotomayor is up front and garners the respect of her professor. He declares that “not every experiment is a success” (166) and takes mercy on her due to her earnest request for help. Even after Princeton, Sotomayor continues to seek the help of others, finding a mentor in José Cabranes. He eventually offers her a job, jump-starting her career. Finally, the help of Dave Botwinik, starts Sotomayor’s judicial career, as he continually pushes her to apply as a judge. Through these experiences, Sotomayor learns “it’s better to accept a gift with ‘Thank you’ than ‘You shouldn’t have”