Spank Children Persuasive Speech
As a child who has been spanked, here are some messages you are sending your child when you use physical punishment as a tool of discipline, “If someone hits me, it’s because I deserve it. Don’t say no, don’t disagree. Don’t make a mistake and certainly don’t get caught. Don’t tell the truth, it will get you hit. People only love me when I’m doing what they want.” Even if you are disciplining your child out of love and with thought of them learning from right and wrong, you are still going about it the wrong way. Physical punishment, or to be more specific, spanking, doesn’t teach obedience or how to mature in response to that misconception. It only teaches them that violence is a healthy solution, gives them an example on how to treat the
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To say this plainly, research from a 2009 study shows that parents who spank their children are truly, beating the ability to maintain their self-control. It’s ironic, because the more parents spank their children for the lack of self-control, the less self-control they have. To emphasize this, research of a 50 year stretch and involving more than 160,000 children, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, show that children that are spanked are more defiant than before, become antisocial, become more aggressive, they have more mental problems, and have developmental issues. Children that are a product of spanking are not that far off from children who are a product of abuse. Children who are abused have just slightly worse indicators than children who are spanked. Again, the use of physical force to discipline, not only hinders their development, but also have a harmful, permanent effect on their prefrontal …show more content…
Some adults who were spanked as a child, believe that spanking has no lasting psychological effects and they justify spanking, in the sense that they deserved it and that it was an appropriate form of discipline. That may have been true then, when we were ignorant to the harmful outcomes of physical punishment, but there is concrete evidence that demonstrates that children will most likely not trust their parents, fear their parents, and destroy their any relationship between the parent and child. Children need guidance and support to be able to
To say this plainly, research from a 2009 study shows that parents who spank their children are truly, beating the ability to maintain their self-control. It’s ironic, because the more parents spank their children for the lack of self-control, the less self-control they have. To emphasize this, research of a 50 year stretch and involving more than 160,000 children, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, show that children that are spanked are more defiant than before, become antisocial, become more aggressive, they have more mental problems, and have developmental issues. Children that are a product of spanking are not that far off from children who are a product of abuse. Children who are abused have just slightly worse indicators than children who are spanked. Again, the use of physical force to discipline, not only hinders their development, but also have a harmful, permanent effect on their prefrontal …show more content…
Some adults who were spanked as a child, believe that spanking has no lasting psychological effects and they justify spanking, in the sense that they deserved it and that it was an appropriate form of discipline. That may have been true then, when we were ignorant to the harmful outcomes of physical punishment, but there is concrete evidence that demonstrates that children will most likely not trust their parents, fear their parents, and destroy their any relationship between the parent and child. Children need guidance and support to be able to