In contrast McAuley describes his grief as a result of the lack of connection between himself and his child while Auden’s grief stems from the loss of his partner and the inability to accept his partner is now gone. The repetition of “one” by McAuley’s narrator reflects on how the mother once “in farewell touched you” and was gifted that one touch and because of this absence of connection he “cannot tell/ cannot understand”, why this lack of a bond grieves and distresses him so much. Similarly, Auden’s inability to understand his grief stems from the fact his lover was metaphorically his “North, South, East, and West”. His love extends to every facet of his life and without him, he has no
In contrast McAuley describes his grief as a result of the lack of connection between himself and his child while Auden’s grief stems from the loss of his partner and the inability to accept his partner is now gone. The repetition of “one” by McAuley’s narrator reflects on how the mother once “in farewell touched you” and was gifted that one touch and because of this absence of connection he “cannot tell/ cannot understand”, why this lack of a bond grieves and distresses him so much. Similarly, Auden’s inability to understand his grief stems from the fact his lover was metaphorically his “North, South, East, and West”. His love extends to every facet of his life and without him, he has no