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Summary: My Friend's Process Of Pregnancy To Parenthood
Pregnancy
In this journal, I have chosen my friend’s mother, Mrs Weng to be interviewed as she could still recall her process of pregnancy to parenthood.
After Mrs Weng found out that she was pregnant, she was very happy as they finally have a baby of their own. However, her parents were very worried and they were not very much excited as she is the youngest in the family, thus pregnancy seems to be normal to them. During the first three months, Mrs Weng felt nausea, fatigue, and she loses her appetite most of the time. Also, she was emotionally unstable as there were many changes that she have to adjust accordingly, and she loses her temper easily. Unlike pregnant mothers nowadays, Mrs Weng did not made special preparations like attending
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During labour, there were many contractions that Mrs Weng felt, which also causes a lot of pain. However, Mr Weng was at home giving his support through prayers due to superstitions. As it was through virginal birth, Mrs Weng got to see her child and she also got to carry it immediately after labour. Even though it was a long process and Mrs Weng was very exhausted, she felt very blissful as she finally get to see her first baby.
Parenthood
Mrs Weng had a tough time adjusting to parenthood after she was discharged as she had financial problems and the environmental conditions of the place she lived in, was very bad. At that time, Mr and Mrs Weng were living in a 1 room flat, and they were very worried as there were many drug addicts at the corridors. Moreover, it was the period where the government wants to demolish the building and they were forced to move out. However, due to financial constraints, they were one of those remaining ones who do not have enough money to move out.
Taking care of a baby was not easy as both Mr and Mrs Weng always lacks of sleep due to baby cries, even during the day. Thus they have to comfort the baby and take care of the baby’s basic needs. Furthermore, there were a lot of conflicts and arguments as they did not have enough sleep, which caused them to be very short
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On top of that, the life-support systems for the embryo grows as well, where the amnion, umbilical cord and placenta form to support and protect the foetus. At this period, the foetus’ body organs also starts to form, which is called organogenesis. As the foetus grows, they follow two principle which are, cephalocaudal and proximodistal, where the body that grows from head to toe and chest to outwards respectively.
The last stage of prenatal development is the fetal period. Throughout this period, the foetus is able to move around, the gender of the foetus can be make known to Mrs Weng, and the foetus’ facial features are formed. This also means that every part of the foetus is form and the foetus is waiting to come to the new world.
Mrs Weng also has frequent mood swings, and based on Dr. Gregg (2013), she stated that there are regular fluctuations in hormone levels, which affects one’s levels of neurotransmitters, and it can also be due to hot flashes which Mrs Weng is

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