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Children face many different transitions in their young lives. One of the main transitions is changing schools. This may make them feel anxious and nervous, they may be apprehensive about what their new school is going to be like. They may be sad because they are leaving their friends and familiar security of their previous school. They may experience a sense of loss and even bereavement about losing their friends. The child’s behaviour may change; they may become withdrawn or display extroverted behaviour. The child may show regression academically and communicatively. They may become ill, this maybe a genuine stress related illness or a pretend illness that will delay the change that is upsetting them. Younger children may become clingy and display behaviour of a younger child because they feel vulnerable. Older children may have sleepless nights or nightmares; they may develop mood swings and become grumpy and irritable. They may experience loss of appetite or binge to find comfort. In extreme cases children may self-harm or even think about suicide. These effects of these transitions would impede development emotional, physically, socially and cognitively.…
However there are many examples of the kind of influences that affect children and young people’s development, parents going through a marriage breakdown, separation and divorce proceedings can be very traumatic for a child. Children of one parent families may suffer as a single parent may not work or conversely work long hours, leaving the child with little support and open to bullying, or possibly no male role model to look up too. Children may become part of a step family, where a new partners may have children of their own from a previous relationship. This could lead to conflict or friction between the children and unhappiness for the child being picked on, leading to low self esteem, lack of confidence in their own abilities.…
Critical Thinking Questions 6. Describe the effects of divorce on children under five, school-aged children, and teenagers. children under five may experience increased temper tantrums, have difficulty sleeping, and have more separation anxiety. School-aged children may feel sadness, guilt, and anger about the situation. They may become disinterested in school work and may develop phobias.…
Divorce is very hard on everyone in the family. It is stressful for the parents but also for the children. Aside from a death in the family, divorce is one of the most stressful events for a family. Divorce can impact the way a family communicates with one another and how they relate to one another. Children under the age of five may have more frequent temper tantrums, trouble sleeping, and they may feel more separation anxiety. School aged children may experience sadness, guilt, and anger, they may also become disinterested in school and can develop phobias. Teens are likely to develop insecurities, feel sadness, and other emotions; they are also likely to use and abuse drugs and alcohol, engage in risky behaviors such as criminal activity, skipping school etc.…
Parents are often told to “think about the children.” Doctor Judith S. Wallerstein, the Executive Director of the Center for the Family in Transition, California, stated in her scholarly journal : “A comprehensive review of research from several disciplines regarding long-term effects of divorce on children yields a growing consensus that significant numbers of children suffer for many years from psychological and social difficulties associated with continuing and/or new stresses within the post-divorce family and experience heightened anxiety in forming enduring attachments at later developmental stages including young adulthood.” In this, Wallerstein is making the claim that divorce effects children so deeply that they suffer from stress, anxiety, and psychological and social difficulties. While these have been common results, divorce is sometimes in the well-being of all family members. If parents argue often, disrupting and terrifying children, (especially if young) then separating would relieve family members from the anxiety that arguments and fighting cause. Robert E. Emery, a Professor of Psychology and Director of the Center for Children, Families, and the Law, Virginia, claims experts are often confused on the true effects of divorce on children. In his article, he includes children whose parents’ marriage “was full of intense conflict and…
Currently, 50% of today’s children are affected by parental divorce. Court dockets across the country are rife with angry parents embroiled in contentious divorce proceedings that are often protracted by custody and child support disputes. Children of these broken and failed marriages are stuck in the midst of a traumatic event. Whatever parental strife existed prior to divorce is now magnified and children are left helplessly watching the two people they love most tear each other apart. This trauma induced by divorces is equivalent to the trauma induced by experiencing the death of a parent. Many children are left with feelings of anxiety, sadness, depression, and anger. These children often exhibit a variety of behaviors that affect their school functioning. Clinicians counseling children of divorce must be prepared to educate parents and assist them in recognizing the importance of their continued involvement in the child’s life. Counselors must be cognizant of the extreme stress that these children endure and be prepared to advocate for the best interests of their child client. With appropriate intervention for both divorcing parents and their children, counselors can help children heal from the pain of divorce and develop healthy post divorce family structures.…
Nevertheless they often have strong reactions to their parents ' divorce. They may feel abandoned, anxious, and depressed. Their use of drugs and alcohol may increase and also can have problems sleeping and eating and focusing on their school work or studies. They are struggling with their own identities and trying to figure out who they are. Older adolescents are trying to develop a self-image as a unique person so that they can enter adulthood with self-confidence. When parents divorce, the adolescent who is developing identity can be thrown into chaos and their self-confidence may be undermined. Without a clear path to a mature identity they can find a variety of ways to get in trouble such as school. They get lower grades, do poorly on achievements tests, have lower educational aspirations, and adolescents from divorced families often drop out of school. They are not socially competent, they get into trouble with other people and they often show behavior problems such as being more aggressive and antisocial. Adolescents have more of a tendency to commit more delinquent acts of shoplifting, damaging school property, running away from home, fighting, stealing, and lying. Not only do they have these externalizing problems but they also have internalizing problems such as being more anxious, withdrawn, depressed and having…
Every year, over one million children in the U.S. have to deal with the hardships of their parents getting a divorce, and almost all these divorces involve the children being under 18 years of age. Divorce impacts everyone involved, but more so the children. Divorce can have an abundantly negative effect on the child’s life, and it can cause problems from the beginning of the divorce and continues on into the times ahead. Some of these effects of divorce on children include: A greater chance of getting divorced in the future, poor social skills and suffering emotionally as well as academically.…
Perhaps no other area in the social sciences inspires as much debate as the issue of parents getting divorced. While many marriages end in divorce and any such breakup of the marital union is understood to be a challenging and emotional event for anyone and everyone involved. Researchers are particularly interested in how divorce affects any children in the family. This effect has been the source of much controversy, as major studies in the past decade have found results are sometimes in direct opposition to each other. Even the methods used to conduct these studies is sometimes leaves suffering families confused and wondering who they should listen to.…
Family dynamics – most children do grow up in families, but there are some who grow up in foster family or in the care of the local authority. Children who have good relationships with their parents, siblings can gain confidence and they also seem do better at school. When families split up children’s emotional and social development can be affected and they may feel left out. When children become more independent they might start hang around with friends on the street or stay out late, so they will become vulnerable to the attention of undesirable adults or stray into antisocial behaviour.…
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Multiple studies have been completed on the numerous ways that divorce impacts children under the age of eighteen. In one study that began in 1973 shows that at least one million children per year are affected by divorce and this number increases slightly each year (McGuinness, 2006). Considering the fact that one out of every two marriages today ends in divorce and many divorcing families include children, the number of those affected is very high (American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 2012).…
Dropping out of school would impact teenagers’ social lives. Being in school helps teenager’s improve in many things such as their communications skills. Quitting school gives you fewer opportunities to work in a group which is not a benefit to that person. More dropouts have been to jail or prison because they are getting into more trouble than they would if they were in school. A person’s social life would be impacted by dropping out of school because they would not have as much opportunity to work on their communications skills which is necessary for your future.…
References: Amato, P. R. (1993). “Children’s adjustment to divorce: Theories, hypotheses, and empirical support.” Journal of Marriage and the Family, 55, 23-58.…