In The Box Man, by Barbara Lazear Ascher, the protagonist reveals that a life of solitude need not always be lonely. Though the Box Man lives a life of solitude as a homeless wanderer, Ascher describes his “grand design” and “grandmotherly finger licking” to convince readers that their assumptions about homeless people are unfounded – and that they can live a dignified life. By describing the Box Man as “dignified” and “at ease”, Ascher paints a vivid picture of a man who chose a life a comfort and solitude and defeated loneliness by becoming his own…
The `Box Room’ by Liz Lochhead is a poem which describes a girl’s stay at her boyfriend’s childhood home, and her encounter with the boyfriend’s mother. As the poem title suggests the girl is to spend the weekend in the Box Room, which was her boyfriend’s room as he lived and grew up in the family home. This essay will look at the theme of relationships by examining the conflict between the boyfriend’s mother and the girlfriend by using word choice and minor sentences.…
In explaining what loneliness truly is, Barbara Ascher gives examples like the woman across the way that lives alone with many cats. What is loneliness? The Box Man is…
Many people in society can be considered by outsiders by society. These sorts of characters, along with being found in modern day society, are also found in all forms of media such as Scott Pilgrim in Scott Pilgrim Versus the World, Colonel Aureliano Buendia from One Hundred Years of Solitude, and even Doctor Gregory House from acclaimed television series House. These characters provide us with a fascinating viewpoint on how they view society and how they are able to interact with society as a result of this isolation and ostracism from society. Arguably one of the greatest examples of this isolated character challenged by society’s very moral center is the character of Meursault of Albert Camus’ The Stranger. Camus throughout The Stranger…
Gray creates images, which are representative of a glimpse into our future. The lone persona is not to be acknowledge as an individual, whose existence can be neglected, but as a species, a civilisation, a world. Gray excludes his persona from the environment, creating a sense of an isolated being/man, detaching himself from the city and all the corruption within. The isolation of the persona is emphasized through the denial of normal human essentials, “A shell station (with their Men’s locked), a closed hamburger stand” The denial of his relief and a basic need such as food.…
The feelings of alienation and loneliness are unpleasant and severe. It can leave an indelible mark on someone’s heart. People have been known to go inordinate length to end these feelings. It hunts them down and becomes part of them. In the short story “The Painted Door,” the author tends to share with us that, we normally take everything for granted and regret later.…
She finally comes to the conclusion that the box man conquers over loneliness by choosing to live in a life of solitude and become a friend of his own, to understand himself completely, compared to the women who don’t know what to do anymore or seem very…
It does always result in trying to escape that isolation, but when we are isolated from ourselves it resides within us, and escape is impossible. It sits closer to the concept of separateness rather than loneliness. It is clear that in “The End of the World”, the narrator’s isolationism is because of his own choice. I argue that the most important way in which the novel discusses isolation is to see it as an internal state which does not necessarily have anything to do with how isolated one is with regard to other people. Instead, it is to show that as even as social beings who constantly interact with others carry elements of isolationism in our lives. Marukami effectively makes the whole story subordinate to the theme of isolationism to relate the reader to his…
In many cases and in literature isolation plays a major role on a character's personality, this isolation leads the characters and humans to become outraged and become violent. In Ken Kesey’s, one flew over the cuckoo’s nest, McMurphy…
The essay, ‘The Boxman’, written by Ascher, analyzes the different activities of the characters without ever knowing anything about them. Asher implicates that loneliness does not necessarily mean unhappiness and it depends on the person’s choice and preferences more than anything.…
In Nathaniel Hawthorne’s novel The Scarlet Letter, the main characters face the theme of isolation. Every single one of them deals with it internally, however, two of them must face it externally as well. To feel isolated is like standing in a crowded room, constantly filling with familiar faces but yet the feeling of emptiness or aloneness still lingers. It’s a battle with humanity as well as your own mind; in a particular case in The Scarlet Letter it drove a man crazy.…
Ascher seems to have written her essay for two interlocking reasons: to show and thus explain that solitude need not always be lonely and to argue gently for defeating loneliness by becoming one’s own friend. In choosing the Box Man as her main example, she reveals perhaps a third purpose as well – to convince readers that a homeless person can have dignity and may achieve a measure of self satisfaction lacking in some people who do have homes.…
Then comes the lady in the coffee shop. In my opinion she is the loneliest of them all. We could assume from the way she “drags it out as long as possible” that she is indeed desolate. This woman seemingly has nothing in her life worth remembering because “You can tell by the vacancy of expression that no memories linger there.” Hers is the most painful loneliness because “her children …prefer not to visit.” Although we do not know why or how, we can see that she is not her children’s favorite person.…
This essay implies to the reader that loneliness isn’t always a vile thing. The author compares somebody who has absolutely nothing in life but enjoys the solitude, to people who roam through life alone, seeking for company—but never find it. The author compares the chosen lifestyle of the box man, to the undesired for loneliness of the victims. The author explains that although one may be poor and alone, it does not mean that one is unhappy. For example, in paragraph 12 it is explained that the mayor has offered him help, but the box man pushes it away. In paragraph 18 it is described how the box man enjoys his dark life. It is portrayed that life is a solo journey and that one may be much more miserable by going through life accompanied than by being a collector of boxes.…
People sitting by themselves at lunch, people who never go out with their so-called friends, and people who avoid association with anyone unless necessary. All of these are examples of individuals who one may try to help because of an automatic assumption that they are lonely and in need of a friend. This assumption is flawed, as their is both chosen and unchosen solitude, as expressed in Barbara Ascher’s essay, “The Box Man,” from her book Playing After Dark. Through the juxtaposition of the homeless man and the two lonesome women, accompanied by an admirative tone used in regard to the homeless man and a tone of sympathy toward the women, Ascher expresses the idea that one’s material standing in society is irrelevant to one’s state of mind…