Summary Of The Third Ah-Ha By Lundberg

The third “ah-ha” moment I had from this book was, when the book stated “Wise parents will validate as they try to meet their babies’ needs. (Lundberg; Lundberg , 2000, p. 1440) The book conveys the importance validation has on a child, especially at an early age. For babies validating while speaking in a soothing voice, will help the baby understand that his feelings have been understood and validated. Instead of resorting to angry while meeting a baby’s needs, it will make the baby and parent more upset. By validating your baby’s feelings, it will help them become accustomed to the parent’s understanding and validation response. When I have children, I believe I will try to validate my child early on. By reading this book, I learn that there