First love never dies they say. It holds true as in both movies as there is an agonizing seven year absence period between the last meeting of the couples until they are reunited once again. During the seven years of absence the girls have become successful in society (demonstrated in the Notebook), and in their career, illustrated in Sweet Home as Melanie rocks the charts as a fashion designer. Both their men (also during this time) took a trip to New York City. They hoped to find the loves of their lives again, yet found the cause for their misery instead. They both worked the labor of love for the chance to win back the heart of their childhood sweetheart, and the heart of their summer love.
Amid the separation both girls found comfort in the arms of another man. They were both engaged to be married to eligible bachelors with standing positions in society, bachelors whom their parents approve of, who are both rich and love them wholeheartedly. However, in the end they both still chose the simple country lifestyle love over society 's depiction of the perfect love. The girl 's reasoned that they were more able to be their true selves with their first love.
There were also so many memories they reasoned, and both men brought those memories to life as their presentation of their 'labor of love ' is presented towards the
Cited: The Notebook. Dir. Nick Cassavetes. Perf. Rachel McAdams, Ryan Gosling. DVD. New Line Home Entertainment. Sweet Home Alabama. Perf. Reese Witherspoon.