father sacrifices his warmth in the painfully cold temperature conveying that not only is it an…
The meaning of “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden is to show the familiar, familial love that is relatable by most people. From the beginning of the story and all throughout the boys shows his father-son love that he does not understand and fully appreciate until he is reminiscing about his father and how he always got up early, even on Sundays. The boy is not just an unappreciative child, he is simply a growing boy; he has a lot to learn. His growing through the poem shows the father-son relationship he only fully understands when he is older.…
While the fathers seem to have hard mannerisms, their level of interactions with their sons varies significantly. This represents their different approaches to fatherhood. In "Those Winter Sundays", the father does small deeds that show his love for his family. As…
The second part of the poem ‘Nightfall’ continues the story of the child forty years from ‘Barn owl’, where she had lost her innocence by shooting an owl and this had resulted in a heavy hearted guilt which was caused by her unknowing and stubborn actions. The poem represents death closing in on the father, and the limitations of time on their relationship that was never experienced before in her younger years. The father, who in the first poem is depicted as an “old no-sayer”, is now held in high esteem, he is admired and respected as an “old king”. The extended metaphor “Since there is no more to taste ripeness is plainly all. Father we pick our last fruits of the temporal.” Appeals to our senses and is now an aural metaphor, it illustrates the father’s life becoming fulfilled or ripe, it has come near to its end and the father and child will now spend or pick the last moments of the father’s life together. Over time her appreciation of her father has changed, this is shown through “Who can be what you were?” and “Old King, your marvellous journey’s done.” She has realised the valuable life her father has led and the great loss that will be felt after he is gone. The child, now a grown woman learns another lesson about death, it can be quiet and peaceful, and “Your night and day…
In the poem “Those Winter Sundays” the father is described to wake up every morning even on Sundays also, to warm the house up for his child. He worked all week doing labor and “No one ever thanked him” is a hint that people around him were very unappreciative. The narrator, in the last two sentences said, “what did I know, what did I know of love’s austere and lonely offices” and he realizes what his father was doing for him. He felt that in the beginning his dad didn’t really care for him because the love wasn’t shown upfront with hugs, kisses and words.…
While the child lacks intimate interactions with his father in “Those Winter Sundays,” the speaker in Kinnell’s “After Making Love We Hear Footsteps,” conveys how comfortable his son, Fergus, is when interacting with him. The speaker begins by telling us about his son’s habit of waking up, not when loud sounds are produced, but when he hears the noises his parents make while making love. He describes that his son “will wrench himself awake / / and make for it on the run,” (8-9) in his haste to get to their bedroom. Fergus eagerly seeking out his father displays the affection he carries for his dad.…
Furthermore, in ‘Nightfall’ Harwood evokes the reader’s engagement in these provocative ideas through the portrayal of the mature relationship between the father and child after forty years. A reversal of power roles between the father and child who is now an adult is evident in the metaphorical description of the father as “stick thin” which depicts his frailty and need for guidance. Harwood’s allusion to Shakespeare’s King Lear in “Old king” displays the persona’s respect towards the father. The adult accepts the father’s death as he has reached a “season that seemed incredible”. This natural image is symbolic of the adult speaker’s accepting outlook towards the father’s age. Additionally, the reference to nature in the fourth stanza, “sunset exalts its known symbols of transience,” personifies the sunset which is symbolic of decline. The sunset represents transience, and this transitional period marks the persona’s progress from innocence to experience which accompanies decline and aging. Therefore, it is evident that the speaker acknowledges the father’s death in a positive manner, as Harwood links death with beautiful images of nature. Moreover, the speaker’s melancholy tone reveals a sense of understanding of death, “the child once quick to mischief, grown to learn what sorrows, in the end, no words, not tears can mend,” expressing an acceptance of death through the maturation of the child into an adult. Therefore, Harwood’s ‘Father and Child’ explores the ideas of progression from innocence to experience through the confrontation with mortality.…
Upon first reading the poem “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden, I was an objective reader who assumed Hayden was looking back with nostalgia at his lost childhood. Without researching the poem, as well as Hayden himself, I had no way of knowing his background as an adopted child to unhappy parents in a dysfunctional household. After reading several sources, I’ve formed a somewhat new outlook on the poem and what it means not only to we the readers, but also to Hayden the poet.…
In the poem “Those Winter Sundays”, the speaker is reflecting on his childhood and his lack of real emotion towards his father while he was a young child. When the speaker becomes an adult, he regrets not realizing that his father had his own way of affection towards him. In the present, the speaker realizes how hard and desolate it is to show parental love to someone. The poem‘s diction helps paint a vivid picture to the reader about the emotions in this piece.…
“Those Winter Sundays,” Robert Hayden and “My Papa’s Waltz,” Theodore Roethke describe the emotional and personal relationship between the son and their father. Both narrators seem to be reflecting on a childhood memory of their father. The two poems, “Those Winter Sundays” and “My Papa’s Waltz,” show a father’s love for his family. “Those Winter Sundays” in line 12, Hayden states, “Polished my good shoes as well.” In the poem “My Papa’s Waltz” (line 13-14), Roethke speaks, “You beat time on my head, with a palm caked hard by dirt.” The narrators indicate that their fathers were hard working and took care of their family. The two poems are parallel in topic, but differ in theme and voice of the narrator and tone.…
Hayden’s poem “Those Winter Sundays” is about a man lacking appreciation for the hard work and dedication that he does on a day to day basis for his job, but his child loves and appreciates him for all of the hard work that he does. The poem was from a child’s point of view and the theme of Those Winter Sundays is created through the stream of consciousness, conflicts, symbolism, and a flat/ static relationship of the poem. The father rises early on Sundays after a dense week of work, it seems as though no one appreciates him. Considering that the father work all the time the father might not show that he cares because he is not emotionally intact. However, getting up early to attend work shows that he cares because he is doing what he has to do to take care of the house. “Sundays to my father got up early. No one ever thanked him” (line1 & 5). This line represents a loving child who watches their father despises on getting up every Sunday to go to work and never receives a thank you for all of the hard work that he has done.…
"Love", is often an unrequited emotion experienced by many parental figures. This is displayed in the poem, "Those Winter Sundays" by Robert Hayden where the speaker is recalling of a time during his childhood where he contemplates the sacrifices his father made for him. The line, "Sundays too my father got up early (Line 1)", entails that his or her father awoke every morning and with "cracked hands that ached from labour (Line 3)", undergone his daily routine as the speaker remained oblivious to his father's enormous efforts. It also implies that as young individuals we are often oblivious of the sacrifices that result from parental love.…
The poem My Papa’s Waltz describes a child’s nostalgia towards his conflicted relationship with his father. In this poem the tone of the speaker is characterized by the deep devotion and love he felt towards his father during his youth. Looking back on the time his father spent playing with him when he was a child, the speaker describes “[hanging] on like death” and “clinging to [his] shirt” (Roethke 3,16).…
The poem “Those Winter Sundays” was written by Robert Hayden. The poem 's theme is centralized around the love and commitment of Hayden’s father. The poem expresses how Hayden seen his father as a strict, responsible, and sometimes angered man. Although his father was strict in his ways, he did show his love in his own ways.…
Consequently, those who never seek gratitude silently give love to all they have. In “Those Winter Sundays” the author, Robert Hayden, depicts a child looking back on a frigid morning and becoming aware of his father’s daily acts of affection. The poem’s narrator is a child who is not clearly classified as male or female, but can be assumed to be the father’s son. The poem begins by illustrating a father rising at dawn on a bitterly cool weekend, a day of rest. Although his hands are worn down and chapped from the work of previous weeks, the father builds a fire to combat the teeth-chattering conditions of his family’s home without receiving adoration.…