This is very important because if you react too quickly, your response might be out of anger when there might not be and conflict in the first place. For example,“When you go into a conflict situation already feeling extremely threatened, it’s tough to deal with the problem at hand in a healthy way. Instead, you are more likely to shut down or blow up in anger”(Segal). When the Nazis took over Europe, especially Germany, people felt very angry, but in an important moment such as this, it is important to remain cool, calm, and collected when dealing with this huge hurdle. Anne Frank said,“Thanks to Father -who brought my entire postcard and movie-star collection here beforehand -and to a brush and a pot of glue, I was able to plaster the wall with pictures. It looks much more cheerful”(19). Anne Frank kept a cheerful attitude when in the worst of times. Third, after you perceive conflict, how should you respond to it? When you respond to conflict, you should always respond in a lighter tone at first, but if that doesn’t work you need a new tactic. You need to address the problem, and create backup plans. For example,“Determine follow-up you will take to monitor actions. You may want to schedule a follow-up meeting in about two weeks to determine how the parties are doing”(Resolving Conflict Situations). If you have a conflict, you need to make sure it is gone and stays
This is very important because if you react too quickly, your response might be out of anger when there might not be and conflict in the first place. For example,“When you go into a conflict situation already feeling extremely threatened, it’s tough to deal with the problem at hand in a healthy way. Instead, you are more likely to shut down or blow up in anger”(Segal). When the Nazis took over Europe, especially Germany, people felt very angry, but in an important moment such as this, it is important to remain cool, calm, and collected when dealing with this huge hurdle. Anne Frank said,“Thanks to Father -who brought my entire postcard and movie-star collection here beforehand -and to a brush and a pot of glue, I was able to plaster the wall with pictures. It looks much more cheerful”(19). Anne Frank kept a cheerful attitude when in the worst of times. Third, after you perceive conflict, how should you respond to it? When you respond to conflict, you should always respond in a lighter tone at first, but if that doesn’t work you need a new tactic. You need to address the problem, and create backup plans. For example,“Determine follow-up you will take to monitor actions. You may want to schedule a follow-up meeting in about two weeks to determine how the parties are doing”(Resolving Conflict Situations). If you have a conflict, you need to make sure it is gone and stays