Hillman (2008) uses the example of male performance enhancing drugs, such as Viagra, that can lead to blurred messages. These advertisements seen on TV may be viewed as a tool that normalizes older adults engaging in sexual activity that takes shame away from getting proper diagnosis and treatment if they are unhappy with their level of sexual performance. However, this same message may limit the ways older adults believe they can express their sexual desires (e.g., only through heterosexual penetration) and may marginalize other older adults who participate in other sexual acts or identify as LGBTQ (Hillman, 2008). Ultimately, older adults should know that there is no ‘normal’ or proper behavior in the way sexuality presents itself in later life, it is solely dependent on the needs and perceptions of that …show more content…
It is important to also remember the importance of sexuality itself, Pangman & Sequire (2000) conveyed it beautifully:
Sexuality is central to the self-concept, self-esteem and body image. It includes qualities and values that make individuals who they are; the biological, psychological, social, cultural, and spiritual aspects of self. Sexuality is all that individuals have absorbed from their environment and refers to the totality of being, living harmoniously in relationships with self and other (p.