The Blind Husband In Raymond Carver's Cathedral
In Cathedral, by Raymond Carver, a blind man is visiting his friend that took care of him ten years ago. Although never given a name in this story, the narrator's (Bub's) wife is an important character. It is her friendship with Robert that "makes" the story. For her, it started out just as a job, and grew into much more. She read to Robert and helped him with all the household chores. She left working for him because her husband went to officer training school so they had to move. The blind man and the woman kept in touch through audio tapes throughout the years. This gave the woman enough money so that she could marry her childhood sweetheart. You may be able to tell, just what a kind and giving person she was, for doing the job she chose.
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This is characteristic of her good nature and true compassion for her friend. At first, her husband was sketchy about the blind man coming to visit, and a little scared. The blind man was not what the husband expected. The blind man did not have dark glasses or a cane, and he smoked. The husband did not think that blind people smoked because of his own stereotypes he felt towards the blind. As the evening went on, it was apparent that the husband and wife were having a small conflict because of the husband's feelings towards the blind man. You can see both sides of this conflict. The wife is just being kind to a friend, but then again, I can see how Bub" would feel somewhat inferior because he really had no "say" to who would come into and stay in their home. The husband offered the blind man whiskey and they had dinner. When they were finished eating, they went and sat on the couch. The blind man and the woman were reminiscing about what they have missed in each other's lives for the past ten years. You can tell how happy this is making the wife; there is nothing like reminiscing with an old buddy! The wife definitely deserves this! The visit from Robert is as important to the wife as anything. When she falls asleep on the couch between the blind man and her husband - is her intention, I believe, to bring these two closer together. She wants her husband to see what she sees in Robert. Her going upstairs, provides
This is characteristic of her good nature and true compassion for her friend. At first, her husband was sketchy about the blind man coming to visit, and a little scared. The blind man was not what the husband expected. The blind man did not have dark glasses or a cane, and he smoked. The husband did not think that blind people smoked because of his own stereotypes he felt towards the blind. As the evening went on, it was apparent that the husband and wife were having a small conflict because of the husband's feelings towards the blind man. You can see both sides of this conflict. The wife is just being kind to a friend, but then again, I can see how Bub" would feel somewhat inferior because he really had no "say" to who would come into and stay in their home. The husband offered the blind man whiskey and they had dinner. When they were finished eating, they went and sat on the couch. The blind man and the woman were reminiscing about what they have missed in each other's lives for the past ten years. You can tell how happy this is making the wife; there is nothing like reminiscing with an old buddy! The wife definitely deserves this! The visit from Robert is as important to the wife as anything. When she falls asleep on the couch between the blind man and her husband - is her intention, I believe, to bring these two closer together. She wants her husband to see what she sees in Robert. Her going upstairs, provides