The book I picked up for review is “An Open Heart” by The Dalai Lama. The title of the book indicates how one can actually become compassionate towards others, how can one transform from self centered heart to generous heart .The book depicts the Buddhist psychology and their way of living that can be adopted by anyone of any faith. Author has discussed various meditation techniques .This book will help to break free the reader from mental blocks set by him and will make him think about his role in making world a more loving and peaceful place.…
Upon comparing Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Dalai Lama it becomes apparent that the two share many similar doctrines and beliefs. Although they come from two totally different backgrounds it seems as though their overall goals and dreams coincide. The most striking similarity is that both men advocated/advocate for peace and nonviolent solutions to problems. While they may have approached matters differently the goal was the same. Analyzing both men one begins to see that they are admired by so many people because of their philosophies.…
Compassion was a common theme in The Awareness by Gene Stone and Jon Doyle . To show compassion requires a desire to be sympathetic, show pity, love, and general concern for others. While in The Awareness each animal had varying ranges of emotions, such as anger, vengeance, and pity. Compassion was a common thread in each of the chapters. Compassion is a choice made, it simply requires an awareness of feelings and a decision to live with love, respect, and consideration.…
In the book To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee, the main character Scout learns many forms of compassion. But what is compassion? Compassion is the feeling or having feelings for what others are going through. It can either be happy, or sad feelings. It is just trying to connect with what they are feeling. Scout learns about compassion through a couple of things. She learns it through Boo Radley and his situation, through Tom Robinson, and through Dill with his family problems. Compassion is an important thing in life and humanity as the Dalai Lama said.…
Compassion is something we all must give and receive because compassion is the one thing that makes us human. It is when somebody shows someone else that they care about them, and to stop ones suffering. In other words: love. It is not possible to have love without compassion. The two work together like clockwork. Compassion is necessary to the human experience because if someone is not shown compassion (thus not experiencing it) they will suffer.…
Empathy refers to “the ability to understand and share the feelings of others” (dictionary source). However, effective altruists are not drawn to the cause because of emotions. Instead, they are more concerned with maximizing the benefits with a limited amount of resources. In other words, effective altruists are very analytical and calculative…
Empathy, to me, means that everyone should have the same opportunity as everyone else. That everyone should be given the same chance. It should be up to you to how you use that opportunity. In Harrison Bergeron it's believed that equality means that everyone should be the same in every way and that this is a good thing. I disagree with this completely.…
Though these words may make their appearance in similar text, they have different meanings. While sympathy is feeling compassion, sorrow, or pity for the hardships that another person encounters, empathy involves putting yourself in in the shoes of another. In Susan Glaspell’s short story, A Jury of Her Peers, Martha Hale demonstrates both of these commonly confused words.…
“Empathy Is Actually a Choice” by Daryl Cameron, Michael Inzlicht and William Cunningham.In this article it explains how we show empathy towards things we love and towards certain people. It further explains how sometimes when some people show empathy and compassion they often expect to get something in return. Some people also show compassion and empathy For my Make a Change project I’m volunteering at the Somerset Animal Shelter because I believe that all animals should have a home and should be treated fairly. Also by serving / helping people also helps me show compassion and empathy towards others because I like seeing people happy and not sad. By volunteering at my church's Thanksgiving Dinner for the past 10 years I see the difference…
My training and knowledge of the two helps me to be able to identify signs and symptoms. If I am showing signs and symptoms of compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma I address it immediately by talking with my partner, coworkers, supervisor and/or counselor. Working in this field can be extremely difficult and listening to horrific trauma can lead to the clinician to experience secondary trauma. It is so important to have self-awareness and education in compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma so we can continue to be effective in our role as a…
To me, compassion is what pushes us to meet someone in their pain, in their hurt, or in their struggle. The first time I remember receiving compassion was when I was in second grade on a middle-of-the-night flight from Germany to the States. Due to my ear tubes, I was experiencing great ear pain, and a flight attendant noticed my distress. She looked to my mom and asked if she could massage my hand in order to relieve the pain. She took the time to massage my hand, knowing the correct pressure points to alleviate my ear pain, and low and behold, it worked. This flight attendant had to have felt compassion towards my situation and then had a desire to act, in accordance with the Miriam-Webster definition. This is just one small story, but it highlights how far compassion can…
According to the dictionary, empathy is defined as “the understanding of another’s situation, feelings, and motives”. I find it difficult to understand that a person could lack such consideration and compassion for another living creature, but, clearly, I have seen otherwise. On many occasions, I have witnessed disconcerting behavior both aimed at myself, or other individuals and have questioned the our society's complacent moral standards. For as long as I can remember, my ability to treat others with kindness has been second nature, and a vital part in my moral practices and beliefs. Faced with many challenges during my childhood, my empathetic disposition was not only enhanced, but, undoubtedly, the strongest building block in my ethical…
We are all cripples; or we all cripple ourselves in one way or another. It may not be as obvious as those who are in a wheelchair or those who live with any host of diseases that deform the body, but nevertheless we all have issues. Some may battle serious diseases such as depression or anorexia, while others battle more obscure diseases like narcissism, kleptomania, or social ineptitude. More than those who would admit it have addictions to sex, drugs, or alcohol. As we battle our own issues, our attention tends to turn inward and we don’t realize that others suffer as well. Empathy allows us to understand that every single one of us struggles in some way. Compassion allows us to realize that nobody can get through life alone. If we allow empathy and compassion to guide our actions then we can free each other from our individual struggles.…
patient" (Brown, et al., 2009). The distinct difference is "empathy is a preferred skill and…
Maintaining a capacity for empathy in contrast to pitying the pain of others creates a mirroring effect of compassion with potential to reach countless individuals beyond oneself. A disconnect lies within the use of sympathy to connect to others who are struggling and can often create a patronizing infliction that belittles the individual’s pain. Every individual fights a complex battle throughout their life, and the weapons to win one’s war can often be found in the advice from those who are willing to take the step to relate to another’s level. In the past three months, persisting through a challenge has allowed me to obtain an ability to give back to others that are dealing with similar feelings of discontent by sharing methods I used to bring myself out of confusion in my studies. By empathizing to the hardships…