In Part One, Petersen creates a “Flat Brain Theory of Emotions” that explains how our mind works and what goes on with it to make us act the way we do and in the manner we communicate to others. “In my experience, understanding how this mixture of thinking and feeling affects us and our relationships goes a long way towards reducing our clashes and disconnections. It gives clues about how to communicate our concerns and how to listen so others can calm down, think, and act more clearly” (11).…
Drawing on the work of Arlie Hochschild, I will argue that Hochschild’s theory of emotion management best describes my experience. Emotions were internally judged by myself and therefore, attempted to changed based on the cultural context I was in and the interaction I was engaged in. This essay will discuss how emotion work occurred during an everyday interaction to maintain feeling rules. Therefore, changing the display of emotion appropriate for the situation. Emotion work as Hochschild calls is explains the psychological and emotional changes a person undergoes to supress the emotions they’re feeling. (Turner & Stets 2005, 36) Emotions try to physically change how they feel through body work and surface acting. Followed through by deep…
Able to control the emotions can hide the true feeling from someone, growing sensitivity and realise other feelings too…
-We sometimes hide our feelings when something real comes. for example i hide my feeling a lot.…
However, after viewing this film, I realize that I am often too passive in improving my self-awareness of how I express my emotions and thoughts. Since I now realize that these expressions are very much a learned perception, I hope to reinforce (and repeat) expressions that achieve the response I am seeking, and actively assess (and modify) those expressions that fail to achieve an appropriate…
To prevent new affect from blocking further progress, encourage the expression and discharge of emotion (especially through laughing or crying) while modifying a previous cognitive set.…
Payne, B.K., & Corrigan, E. (2007) Emotional constraints on intentional forgetting. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 43, 780-786.…
Emotions play a very important role when discussing interpersonal communication within a relationship. There are circumstances that can result in a variety of mixed feelings between people and unless clearly understood can cause problems in many cases. According to DeVito (2009), "Theorists do not agree over whether you can choose the emotions you feel. Some argue that you can; others argue that you cannot. You are, however, in control of the ways in which you express your emotions" (p. 165) Emotions are the way a person is feeling and sometimes reacting to what you are being told can be seen in nonverbal methods as well. The way you hold yourself, your posture, whether you are maintaining eye contact, if you blush, crying, laughing, there are so many different ways that one needs to be mindful when reacting to what is being said. It is important as a therapist to maintain healthy relationships with clients and not let emotions that we may be feeling be shown if they are not appropriate.…
Janet Bode, author of the book Voices of Rape, interviewed a young man that was once a victim of abuse. He said his parents fed and clothed him, but they did not provide him with the love a child needs to thrive (84). He claimed that the only time emotion was shown was when his father showed hate and rage, he loved to show them it was the only thing he ever loved. He stated that it taught him that beating young children is right and it is the only way to obtain any accomplishment. The world is an average sized planet sometimes considered small, and with the numerous cases of abuse and assault that occurs some or most cases could be happening in every state and city of the world. Abuse comes in various formalities including but not limited to physical, mental, sexual, neglect, but at the end of every day it causes the same pain and it has the same outcome every time.…
distance oneself from negative emotions such as fear, grief, or shame” (Kuipers, 2008). In the…
Feelings make a difficult conversation just that, difficult. We may question the validity of our own feelings or worry about angering or hurting the other person. This is why many people try to ignore the emotional content of these interactions. The author states instead of avoidance we need to acknowledge and share feelings. Otherwise it leads to…
It will be assessed whether working memory capacity (WMC) facilitates the use of emotion regulation strategies. A preceding study has shown that those with higher WMC successfully self-enhance in order to reduce negative affect compared to those with low WMC (Schmeichel & Demaree, 2010). To expand this literature, the present study will investigate if WMC facilitates the use of two different emotion regulating strategies. In the first part of the study, participants will be grouped based on assessment of their working memory capacity (high vs. low). Thereafter, all participants complete an emotion regulation task that will require them to down-regulate their negative emotions using reappraisal and attentional deployment. If the hypothesis is correct, those with higher WMC should self-report lower negative affect when using both regulation strategies. These findings would consolidate the conclusion that those with higher WMC have the resources to better regulate their emotions compared to those with lower WMC.…
Failing to acknowledge your emotions can have negative consequences on your physical and mental well being, which is why it is important to work through them.…
There are universal expressions that can be seen all around the world and within different cultures. Theses universal expressions are the result of some emotion, and because of the similarities in how microexpressions appear in people, it is known that most people react the same way to emotions, and the most common emotional expressions are “happiness, anger, disgust, fear, sadness, surprise and contempt” (HOW I). For example, disgust is often characterized by a wrinkled nose with the upper lip raised, and sadness is expressed by the upper eyelids dropping and the lips going down in the corners (HOW I). Without this similarity in the reactions it would be impossible to use microexpressions to “read” people’s actual emotions. However, it is important to note that there are some differences that can cause these microexpressions to not be accurate indicators of emotions and deception. When an individual avoids eye contact it may be assumed that individual may be lying or hiding something, but in many cultures it is a sign of respect not to look someone in the eyes. With this in mind, it is important to know that microexpressions are not solid evidence, but clues to detecting deception, and should be used in context with the different…
Being simple, but being superior. The Apple Hotel is positioned in a level of 5-star hotel; we provide simple atmosphere and impression, but superior service to our customers. Regarding to the high-class offered accommodation, the Apple Hotel provides customers an environment which is just like home.…