the ending Wharton chose was criticised. “In general, those who saw Lily as society’s victim objected that the ending was too brutal and tragic. Those who thought that Wharton had misrepresented society found Lily deserving of death. And a third group felt that the society Wharton drew with such precision was too superficial and self-serving to inspire passion.” (Booth, 1993: 232-233)
On one hand, Lily Bart does flirt with rebellion, denying Percy’s hand in marriage although she knows it would benefit her financially a great deal.
She also refuses another marriage proposal, from the character of Simon Rosedale. Her main reasons for denying the money making proposals is she believes she herself should be able to pick her own suitor, and is much in love with another male character named Lawerence Selden. These acts of resistance do convey Wharton’s personality into the novel, showing a streak of independence from the main female protagonist, but just like other novels of that time, Lily’s narrative does indeed endure the virtues of conformity.
Wharton’s writing style allows her to convey the problems with the marriage boom but also shows the harshness of what effects it can have on both male and female. “Wharton is unique in being able to endow this drama of social closure, of exclusion and inclusion, with some of the Melvillean power of tragedy. The House of Mirth begins as a social comedy about the marriage market; it’s wicked irony irresistibility reminds us of Pride and Prejudice. But by the time of Lily Bart’s death, we’re more likely to think of ritual sacrifice than of Shakespearean comedy.” (Dickstein, 2005: …show more content…
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Another example for why the character of Lily Bart is key when answering the question, is her fatal ending in life. Throughout her life Lily faces struggles, from rejection from her own family to rejection from other female characters. When another female protagonist in the novel, Bertha, accuses Lily of infidelity with her husband, Lily’s reputation is one again left in tarnish. Dating back from the story of Adam and Eve in the bible, a woman’s appearance, or more to the point her beauty, can be seen as a downfall. As Lily is a young beautiful looking girl, other female characters such as Bertha and her Aunt feel deep jealousy towards her. “The novel opens when Lily Bart is twenty-nine and pushing the limits of her most important asset – youthful beauty. She shudders at the appearance of the first tell-tale wrinkles that presage her ultimate fall from the social machinery that values her only for her beauty and quick wit. (Whitson, 2004:261) Her eventual suicide is a result of the rejection from not only society but from the fellow women in society also. You could Edith portrays Lily as accepting the virtues of conformity as the normal life to live in the 1800/1900’s era is to marry for wealth, as Lily refuses to do this, she is left with a harsh and brutal ending in life.
The role of women and their opinions in the House of Mirth is also something to consider.
Evidently, society is not a friend of young beautiful women with any sort of ambition. Lily is warned from the offset that a place in society is the most important value in a woman’s life. The character of Judy Trenor tries to warn Lily about Bertha, foreshadowing Berthas negative effect on Lily’s life. “What is truth? Where a woman is concerned, it’s the story that’s easiest to believe. In this case it’s a great deal easier to believe Bertha Dorset’s story than mine, because she has a big house and an opera box, and it’s convenient to be on good terms with her” (1905: 218) Here in this short quote Wharton demonstrates her own opinion on society and its materialistic ways. To have a high standing within society, the male figure must go out and earn money on the infamous Wall street whilst women are there for socialising and keeping charge of their family, and doing household chores, although housekeepers and nanny’s was used
often.