this concept.
It is a belief held by far more African Americans that you may realize. I know in writing this blog I risk having my Black card pulled. Nevertheless, I am willing to take that risk. I am revealing insider information, but in my heart I am convinced the truth needs to be told. So many conversations go right to race because of this underlining belief system. I think the racial divide in this country is ripping apart the fabric of the nation and putting us at risk of destroying ourselves and the freedoms that many of our ancestors have bled and died to defend.
The Great Divide:
White America looks at America and thinks, “Hey this isn’t the sixties. There are no more whites only restrooms. Blacks and live anywhere they want. We have affirmative action to make things fair where they appear unfair. And the topper is we elected the first black president in Barak Obama. It seems like we are making progress right?” That is what you think.
In the minds of the black community, very little has changed.
You see the black community as using these factors as a measuring stick. From a Huffington Post article by Jeff Nesbit here are the indicators:
• Black preschoolers are far more likely to be suspended than white children, NPR reported. Black children make up 18 percent of the pre-school population, but represent almost half of all out-of-school suspensions.
• Once you get to K-12, are more three times for likely to be suspended than white children. Black students make up almost 40 percent of all school expulsions, and more than two thirds of students referred to police from schools are either black or Hispanic, says the Department of Education.
• The disparities exist in our neighborhoods and communities. About 73 percent of whites own homes, compared to just 43 percent of blacks. The gap between median household income for whites (about $91,000) compared to blacks (about $7,000) is staggering, and that gap has tripled in just the past 25 years. The median net worth of white families is about $265,000, while it was just $28,500 for
blacks.
• A black man is three times more likely to be searched at a traffic stop, and six times more likely to go jail than a white person. Blacks make up nearly 40 percent of arrests for violent crimes.
• Blacks aren’t pulled over (and subsequently jailed) more frequently because they’re more prone to criminal behavior. They’re pulled over much more frequently because there is an “implicit racial association of black Americans with dangerous or aggressive behavior,” the Sentencing Project found.
I give you this information because in the black community these kinds of number, these disparities prove a there is an institutional problem. While one side of the equations sees progress another side is only frustrated by the lack of progress. So when those two opposing ideologies, realities collide you get Ferguson, MO. You get rioting in Baltimore, because the people who feel oppressed also feel no one is paying attention. I am not saying by any means this is the best way to handle it, but realize the perception is that the institution is against them. So if the institution is against you any emotions and feelings you have that maybe racist is justified because you are the oppressed racial group. Again do I agree with that no. Do I understand the frustration, Yes. Have I figure out all the answers, No. What advice can I give both groups, communicate.
How Do We Begin The Conversation:
We need to acknowledge the current realities.
While as one song put it, “We Have Come A Long Way, baby” we still have a long way to go. The hurt was created over the course of hundreds of years, the history books have tried to soften the effects even hide the truth. However, the pain is real, the cuts are deep. It will take time and intentional effort to move forward.
We need to approach the situation with a loving and forgiving spirit:
Forgiveness is not a human thing it is a God-size accomplishment. This is no human solution to fix this problem it will require heavenly intervention. Remember this nothing is too big for our God. Here is a biblical truth.
What does it mean, "to forgive" in the Greek. Literally, aphiemi means "to send away" or "to make apart". A graphic image I've used is if sin is "missing the mark" -- not hitting the perfect bulls-eye, forgiveness is "removing" or "taking away" all the errant arrows that have missed perfection. Nothing imperfect remains. They have been "sent away" -- "removed".
In terms of reconciliation, we might say that forgiveness "sends away" whatever has been keeping people apart. This doesn't mean that the people will be reconciled. One may keep holding a grudge -- keeping up the barrier that separates the two. Forgiving one's self is being released from whatever keeps one "bound". Anger or feelings of vengeance are "sent away." By forgiving, one is no longer under the control of that past sinful act he/she suffered. It seems to me regarding the racial divide we need this understanding of forgiveness and reconciliation. This is the kind of healing only God can provide. I pray that He will.