The Influence Of Domestic Abuse Relationships

People ask, "Why are you trying to help people 'fix' relationships that many people urge you to flee?" We are by profession, practice and expertise healers first. Our belief is that people, at the core of their being, have the capacity for change.

Every person in an abusive relationship, whether they are the abuser or abused, can influence the dynamics of the relationship. Now this doesn't mean to imply that domestic abuse survivors are responsible for the battering or even have the ability to end the abuse perpetuated upon them.

What it does mean is that many batterers (at least the ones we see) have an innate potential for refocusing and thus reinventing themselves, their relationships and their lives. And domestic abuse victims, too,