"The Loom” continues the story of how the mother frees herself from her overwhelming wishes and fears for her daughters, which imprison her as well as them. While coping with the death of her daughter, she learns she can give love to her surviving daughters without attaching conditions. This skill she practices metaphorically on her loom, weaving gifts specially suited to each one of them.
The stories look at the competition and emotional bonds between sisters who are growing up together ("Independence"), high school love affairs among the narrator’s Japanese-American friends ("First Love"), and “the bond of obligation, of suffering, of love” which ties parents and adult children ("Seattle"). The bond is made even more difficult in this case by the mother’s traditional Japanese viewpoints and the American-born daughter’s conflicting realization—then conviction—that she is not really Japanese. Sasaki’s prose is so unadorned that its lack of poetry often leaves emotional revelations seeming rather flat. But in these