"Actual happiness always looks pretty squalid in comparison with the over-compensations for misery. And, of course, stability isn't nearly so spectacular as instability. And being contented has none of the glamour of a good fight against misfortune, none of the picturesqueness of a struggle with temptation, or a fatal…
In Guy de Maupassant’s short story “The Necklace”, he explores the theme that greed and envy can lead to self-destruction. In this story Matilda Loisel is a very envious wife whom always dreamed for a better existence. She was a beautiful but very discontent woman who thought that she must have been born into the wrong life, since she had no way of being recognized and courted by a rich and powerful man.…
Happiness cannot be explained in a simple definition; however Janie in Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston, explains how to achieve happiness. “Two things everybody’s got tuh do fuh theyselves. They got tuh go tuh God, and they got tuh find out about livin’ fuh theyselves” (192). The only way Janie was going to find happiness was to go out and find it on her own. One would think that finding happiness is a simple thing to do. However, Janie shows us otherwise. After looking in several wrong places for happiness, Janie finally finds it through Tea Cake. Tea Cake’s differing views on money and freedom make Janie very happy. His ability to care and love her would make any woman of this time ecstatic, but many would say that Janie was the most deserving. Tea Cake’s genuine, care free, and hopeful attitude made her happiness possible.…
In “The Necklace” by Guy De Maupassant, Madame Loisel should have been appreciative about her life and belongings, she instead is ungrateful and agonizes over all the imperfect things she owns. Maupassant describes Madame Loisel’s negative feelings towards her home, “She grieved over the shabbiness of her apartment… All these things, which other women of her class would…
In these plays, they both found happiness in money. In the Necklace, Mathilde “had no dresses, no jewels, nothing. And she loved nothing but appearance of its possession, led Mathilde to borrow an expensive necklace from a wealthy friend to show it off at the ball she was invited to by the Minister of Public Instruction. She ended up losing the necklace and worked half of her life to get it back. Not knowing that the necklace was fake. She didn’t want anyone to know that she had lost it, and would do anything to earn money.…
The irony that is implied in the story is that in the fact borrowing the necklace was what the main character, Mathilde hoped would help her into the life she coveted, yet it was also what put her into a life of poverty. In the story, it stated that “ She suffered endlessly, feeling herself born for every delicacy and luxury. She suffered from the poorness of her house, from its mean walls, worn chairs, and ugly curtains. All these things, of which other women of her class would not even have been aware, tormented and insulted her.” This shows how Mathilde has a poor family background while compared to the rich classes for the women in that time period.…
“Actual happiness always looks pretty squalid in comparison with the over-compensations for misery. And, of course, stability isn 't nearly so spectacular as instability. And being contented has none of the glamour of a good fight against misfortune, none of the picturesqueness of a struggle with temptation, or a fatal overthrow by passion or doubt. Happiness is never grand." Humans need more than just happiness to be happy. Freedom was seen as a useless idea in We, humans are volatile and irrational, and confusing, all things that make life a difficult place to be in at times. However, life isn’t life without all of these things. Happiness is what you make of a life that is unpredictable and full of misfortune. Otherwise, you are living a…
Instead she married a simple middle class man and lived a middle class life. All the while she dreamed of living the life of the rich. With beautiful gowns and glittering jewelry. Oh how happy she thought she would be. Then one day it happened that she and her husband where invited to a dinner ball. Her husband, Mr. Loisel thought this would make his wife so very happy since this is what she spent all of her time day dreaming of. Here it was, the thing that consumed her finally at , but she was not happy. In fact, Mathilde was even more distraught because it brought to her attention that she had nothing proper to wear. Mr. Loisel sympathized with his wife and knowing he had money set aside for a new gun, he gave her 400 francs. This was enough money for a pretty dress, not too fancy, but pretty because he knew this would be a rare occasion.…
Imagine how she felt when she received the information that it was not even worth half as much as the necklace she replaced. Through all that time laboring to pay off the borrowed necklace, Mathilde has lost her natural beauty. As said on page 168, “She became heavy, rough, harsh, like one of the poor. her hair untended, her skirts askew, her hands red, her voice shrill, she even slopped water on her floors and scrubbed them herself.” Her friend Mme.…
"No beauty shines brighter than that of a good heart" author unknown. This paradox is explored in Guy De Maupassant's short story "The Necklace" as Madame Loisel gets an invitation to the ball. Madame Loisel is a very poor woman and doesn't have much money or clothes. When she's asked to go to the ball she has nothing to wear so her husband buys her a beautiful dress. Then she realized she has no jewelry and went to her old friend Madame Forestier's house and asked if she could borrow some jewelry, She found a beautiful diamond necklace.…
In “The Necklace”, Mathilde is seen as a poor woman who had low self-esteem and was married to a clerk. In this story, she was invited to a ball and borrowed a friend’s necklace. After the ball, Mathilde discovers that the necklace was lost. As a result, she had to search for a similar necklace and had to take out loans to make a purchase. She was forced to work for ten years to pay off the debt until one day when she saw her friend. Little did Mathilde know that the necklace she lost was worth much less than the new necklace she paid for.…
One of the hardest things for humanity to get through is grief. It’s that heavy feeling of sorrow that sits upon our chests that kills the passion of our hearts and makes even a simple errand seem like an impossible ask. That is the hardest feeling to overcome, and the hardest situation to ignore. Happiness may only be achieved through the acceptance of the things you cannot change; without this you are stuck in the past. Yet in order to truly accept these happenings, you must be grateful for what you already have, which requires optimism. As Martha Washington said, “I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.” [Martha Washington]. The way I see it, if you believe that your life is already wonderful, then it will be wonderful. People have more control over their lives than they might think, and all it takes to maintain such control is gratitude, optimism, and a strong will. Once you decide to appreciate your life, all you need is the will to remember why. If you go around knowing that you’ve got many reasons to be happy, then you’ll become a happier person.…
One should be satisfied with anything good they have. In the short story “The Necklace”, written by Guy de Maupassant, Madame Loisel is unhappy with her life and always wants more. Madame Loisel feels that she should have been born for luxury. She wants to have all these expensive items, such as jewelry. Her husband surprises her by getting her an invitation to the Minister of Education and Madame Ramponneau.…
The first thing that comes across in Mathilde’s character is the fact that she is a materialistic, superficial and conceited woman. Indeed, throughout the whole short story and especially at the very beginning, the author pictures her as if her appearance was the only thing that counts for her. She wants to be physically marvellous and seducing men is her only interest: “she would have given anything to be popular, attractive, and in demand”. This aspect of her personality is clearly enlightened during the party at the Ministry Buildings:…
Later on in the story, Mme Loisel has the time of her life at the party. She dances, she socializes, she even gained all of the attention from the men attending. She finally had everything she had ever wanted. But then, the best night turned into a disaster. "Suddenly she uttered a cry. Her necklace was not around her neck" (Maupassant). This is a very ironic twist in the story. She wants to have a very sparkly, flashy necklace, and she ends up getting it. But then by the end of the story, she lost it and spent the rest of her life trying to pay it off. That makes her even more poor than she was before.…