The Negative Consequences Of Moving Out

How can we move on from a devastating chapter of our lives when I seems like our faith has been badly shaken and our only hope is lost? As said by the author C.S Lewis, getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. There are many causes of breakups that leads to heartbreak and we all know that it really is painful at the first few weeks or months or even years. Some people were able to surpass the obstacles of the post breakup but others don’t mainly because there is something that’s been stopping them to move keep moving forward. Yes, moving on is really easy to say but as a person who’s been there, it really is hard to do but if you’re willing to move on to
Second is, don’t be tempted with replacements. “Don’t pursue a heart that you’re not ready to stay committed to.” Rebound is a positive term only in basketball. Don’t give chance to others just yet. Imagine how unfair it is for that person to give you a whole cake and just receive the icing because you are still dividing the cake into two: yourself and your ex. It is being unfair to yourself and the next person you’ll love. Heal with God, not with someone else. Third is to set memories aside. “Moving on is being able to look back without needing to reach back.” Don’t discard or throw away all the memories and remnants of your relationship. Set them aside for a while. So when you’re ready to look back, as the song goes, you’ll remember the girl/boy but not the feeling anymore. Time will come when the pain will become a memory and that memory will become a lesson. Fourth is, Focus on your goals. “Let your eyes look straight ahead. Fix your gaze directly before you.” Pursuing your life goals rather than envying others’ relationship goals is way better. There is more to life than old rusty feelings. Achieve your dreams and you’ll surely rejoice with the result.