There were many similarities between the two mothers but there were also a few significant differences. One important difference between the two is that once the other Wes Moore dropped out of school, his mother basically gave up. She saw school as one of the few places where Wes could not be involved with drugs, to an extent. Unlike Mary, Joy sent Wes Moore off to a prep military academy when she thought she might be losing him to the streets. At first, he hated the place and tried to escape but he failed and his mother told him to stick it out. "Wes you are not going anywhere... Too many people have sacrificed in order for…
Wes’ school performance wasn’t perfect. He didn’t pay much attention in class because he was bored. I believe it was because Wes knew what was being taught so much so that it didn’t…
Wes was strong enough to lock his own brother away in his basement and was going to take him across the street to the jail. Wes did not give in to his father’s plea, showing strength and courage in his beliefs. David saw a change in Wes and began to reverse his attitude towards his father, gaining more respect as his father became a stronger figure by not compromising his morals.…
Both Wes’s mothers move them out of their neighborhoods in order to provide them with a chance for a future away from crime and drugs. Both Weses try very hard in adapting to their new environment. In the novel The Other Wes Moore by Wes Moore, Joy, the author Wes’s mother moves him to a better part of the Bronx and puts him into a private school. Mary, the other Wes’s mother, moves to Baltimore County, hoping that the other Wes betters himself. However it only gets worse. The other Wes becomes more involved with his community where as the author Wes ties to figure out where he fits in. Both the author Wes Moore and the other Wes Moore face significant challenges in adapting to their new neighborhoods, however, the author Wes struggles more with figuring out how to “fit in.”…
Wes’1 and Wes’2 moved to different towns. Wes’2 was following his big brother steps by becoming a drug dealer. Wes1 got in trouble in school for painting the walls with graffiti. Not only in school, but their behaviors and choices differed on the outside as well.…
In The Other Wes Moore two boys shared the same name, lived in single parent homes, lost their fathers and only lived a few blocks away from each other in Baltimore. Despite these similarities, they made very different choices, which impacted their life outcomes. The choices made by Wes 1 and Wes 2in the book The Other Wes Moore impacted their life outcomes. Wes 1 and Wes 2 made many similar choices such as selling drugs, slacking in school and being involved in criminal activity. The major difference between them was the time of their turning point. Wes 1 realized much later, but it wasn’t until after one of his choices resulted in a life sentencing in prison. Wes 2 realized when his mother sent him to a military school to try and get him in the right direction. This was very hard for Wes 2 he did all he could to leave until he made the decision to stay in which benefited him in the long run.…
In the novel The Other Wes Moore One Name Two Fates written by Wes Moore, each Wes led similar lives but due to seemingly minor decisions in their lives their outcomes drastically differ. There are choices that will come up in life and as seemingly irrelevant or innocent those choices seem can come back and affect the outcome of one's life. The level of commitment that one puts into their work or studies no matter if they want to do it or not, will matter down the road. As trivial as it may seem the support that family and friends offer play a major outcome in an individual's success. The way one's life pans out is not solely dictated in the large moments and in the obvious factors, but the little moments and the seemingly irrelevant factors…
In The Other Wes Moore by Wes Moore. Moore states, “The chilling truth is that his story could have been mine. The tragedy is that my story could have been his” (180). In my opinion, this statement is true, depending on how people interpret it. I see it as yes, it is a tragedy that Wes II did not end up a successful man as Wes I did. However, they both had turning points that could have drastically changed their fates. The only difference was that Wes I had more people helping sculpt him into a wonderful man, and unfortunately Wes II did not. I believe that the environment, mom’s decisions, and teachers all contributed into who these two young men would turn out to be in life.…
Although because of the difference in their losses of their father 's the affects differed. The death of a parent can really damage a child. At times it can change just about everything about the child its future, its personality, its beliefs, its fears, its cravings, and how the child perceives the world itself. Death can traumatize anyone, but it is even more traumatic for a 6 year old boy. In the case of the other Wes Moore that had the father that didn 't choice not to take part in his child 's life it differs in the affects. Another study showed that 1,197 fourth-grade students were observed researchers that concluded the children that grew up without t "greater levels of aggression in boys from mother-only households than from boys in mother-father households." This brings me to the assumption that because of The Other Wes Moore choice to go down the wrong path due to the circumstances that had been placed in his life. He was only bound to go down the wrong path because he had never had a good father figure or father in his life, while Wes Moore on the other hand had that. Wes Moore only had his father in his life for a short time period but yet a still he had his father in life while The Other Wes Moore never…
In the introduction Wes states that, “Our stories are obviously specific to our two lives, but I hope they will illuminate the crucial inflection points in every life, the sudden moments of decision where our paths diverge and our fates are sealed.” (xi) He helps us realize that all it takes is one split decision could change our life forever. That you can easily stumble down the right path, even the right one. (xiv)…
Once upon a time, there were two boys who lived in the same neighborhood, with the same name and family situation, but ended up with totally different lives. Both boys grew up in impoverished neighborhoods with single moms. One of the boys grew up to be a successful decorated soldier and author. Wes’ mother, Joy, raised him as a well-disciplined boy sending him to military school. The other boy grows up selling drugs and taking part in several gangs, he later goes to jail for life after killing a veteran police officer in an armed robbery. His mother, Mary, on the other hand, had a more difficult punishing Wes because she was busy working multiple shifts to support her family. Mothers have different methods of raising their children, but they love them none the less, accurately identified by Pearl S. Buck, some mothers are more lenient while others make extreme decisions to insure the best for their kids.…
While the environments that both boys grew up in were similar, there are key differences that influenced each Wes Moore into making different decisions later in their lives. The book begins with a discussion of their fathers; the author Wes Moore, although for a short time in his life, had a loving father who was involved and active. The other Wes Moore, however, had an alcoholic father who was absent his entire life, not bothering to get involved with his son. The second Wes Moore, unlike the author of this novel, never had a father figure and the only male role model he had was his elder brother who eventually dropped out of school to sell drugs. Both boys were also raised by their mothers but were raised in entirely different matters. Joy was a hardworking, strong and independent woman who had an education and grew up in a disciplined and structured environment. Joy was determined to provide the same for her three children, going as far as moving in with her parents and working multiple jobs to allow her children to go to private school instead of the failing public schools of the Bronx. Joy and Wes’ grandparents were strict and provided a stable household with high expectations and respect for rules and severe punishments for breaking those rules. For example, when Wes started to fail in school and did not improve his grades or his behavior his mother sent him to military school. Joy was a strict disciplinarian. Mary, the mother of the other Wes Moore, was not a strict disciplinarian and did not grow up in a stable environment. Mary’s mother died when she…
Like the author, the other Wes grew up without a father, but not only did the other Wes’s mother play both roles poorly but he had a father figure in his drug dealer brother. He follows in his brother’s footsteps as most people would do who look up to an older sibling and rather than intervening, his mother pretty much denies the fact that she has not one but two sons who are large figures in the drug game in their city. When she does eventually find his stash “She took the box...emptied the contents into the toilet.” (Moore, 73) The closest thing to punishment that Wes got was losing his drugs. Most mothers would flip outif they were to find out their son was going to be a father at the age of 16. When Wes’s mother heard the news that she would become a grandmother her only reactions was, “who wants cake?” (Moore, 101) The other Wes’s mother blew off the problems her son was having rather than help him out with them or punish him.…
He left Mary after Wes was born and was never there to help her parent him or even financially. Mary did not ever think that her child would meet his father, and it would have most likely been better he hadn't. In any case, as fate would have it, Wes met his father, twice, and both circumstances his father didn't know who he was. The first run through Wes met his father was the point at which he was moderately young. It was at his grandma's home, and he saw a man sitting on the couch, inclining dubiously to the side, his correct elbow supporting his body and his head about level against his shoulder. The strong smell of whiskey drifted from his clothes and pores. His father was clearly drunk or hung over, and was experiencing difficulty holding himself up. The smell of whiskey made Wes feel uncomfortable. As of now, there is a visible contrast between this memory of other Wes Moore's father and Wes Moore's father. Wes Moore felt extremely safe around his father, and his father was being a good example in his memory, while the other Wes' father is slamming on his grandmother’s couch, drunk and dirty. "The man on the couch looked toward Mary and asked who's this? One of the most noticeably awful, most offending emotions on the planet must be for a parent not to recognize their own kid. As a good example, Wes' father demonstrated Wes that it was…
Although, both the author Wes and the other Wes had bad experience in school at their small age, as they grew up the similarities soon became apart in the area of education. Education is an imperative to future success as is seen in the life of the author Wes Moore. The positive…