They are expected to remain pure until marriage, and if a woman’s virtue is compromised, it is a scandal that brings shame and disgrace to her family. Sofia, the youngest Garcia daughter, cannot even go and buy contraception in the Dominican Republic because it would be considered shameful to her family. Carlos Garcia always cautioned his girls “I don’t want loose girls in my family” (Alvarez 28). When Sofia returns to the Dominican Republic after living in the United States, she begins to date her uncle’s illegitimate son Manuel. Manuel is extremely controlling and sexist, and also refuses to use protection. Sofia’s sisters go on an adventure with their cousin Mundin to a sleazy motel in town and see Manuel’s car. The sisters are outraged that Sofia is sleeping with Manuel and decide to go home. Once the sisters are home Mami asks them where Sofia is and they say she is with Manuel. Mami is outraged that Sofia is with a man unsupervised and is afraid this will cause a huge scandal to the family and ruin Sofia’s reputation. Yolanda also experiences the old world values about sex with her college boyfriend, Rudy Elmenherst, saying “I’d just gotten over worrying I’d get pregnant from proximity, or damned by God should I die at that very moment…” (Alvarez 97). The beliefs of the Garcia family and Yolanda show the old world values of the Dominican…
Josie Mendez-Negrete’s novel, Las Hijas de Juan: Daughters Betrayed, is a very disturbing tale about brutal domestic abuse and incest. Negrete’s novel is an autobiography regarding experiences of incest in a working-class Mexican American family. It is Josie Mendez-Negrete’s story of how she, her siblings, and her mother survived years of violence and sexual abuse at the hands of her father. “Las Hijas de Juan" is told chronologically, from the time Mendez-Negrete was a child until she was a young adult trying, along with the rest of her family, to come to terms with her father 's brutal legacy. It is a upsetting story of abuse and shame compounded by cultural and linguistic isolation and a system of patriarchy that devalues the experiences of women and girls. At the same time, "Las Hijas de Juan" is an inspirational tale, filled with strong women and hard-won solace found in traditional Mexican cooking, songs, and storytelling.…
There, Duarte met Juana. Juana became Duarte’s “mistress” during his time at the estate. The constant insulting and teasing resulted in a tight bond within the family. The illegitimate siblings resembled a tribe because they were so tight-knit. Eva was constantly conflicted about being illegitimate. She was close with her family but, at the same time, she was ashamed to be associated with them.…
The characterization, in The House on Mango Street, of Esperanza’s great-grandmother and Rafaela is used to convey how women were inferior to men in Esperanza’s society. According to Esperanza, her great-grandmother was a very wild woman. That is why she refused to marry until a man “threw a sack over her head and carried her off” (Cisneros, 11). This shows how unimportant women are, of that time, that a man could kidnap a woman and she could do nothing, no matter how wild she was. Also, despite her wild personality, Esperanza’s great-grandmother shows how women could be forced into marriage without a say in who they marry. Like Esperanza’s great-grandmother, Rafaela has many hopes such as dancing at the dance hall or bar. However, she never…
The mother in the Hispanic family…
Back in then in the 1920’s, everyone except the youngest daughter could get married due to the Mexican traditions that pass from generation to generation. In this novel, Like Water For Chocolate, by Laura Esquivel, Mama Elena, Tita’s mother, and had to choose between running away with the love of her life or staying with the family because the tradition did not let Mexicans and Mulatos, a breed of African American and Mexican get married. Mama Elena is most affected by tradition and her personal desire of love as she must cover up her secret love of Jose Trevino, a Mulatto, to stay respected in her family. The three things that influenced her decisions the most are that she did not get to marry the love of her life; she was forced to marry Juan De la Garza, and that tradition controlled all of the decisions she would later make.…
Today, family is one of the most sacred values we share in the individualist society we live in. Every family is different and has different rules and values; but in most of them, fathers are supposed to be leaders of the family, and role models for their children. They are also considerate like the one who transmits the traditions of their ancestors in order to carry them on. “Fiesta, 1980” is a short story written by Junot Dìaz taken from his short story collection, Drown, (1996). “Killings” is also a short story taken from, Finding a Girl in America (1980), written by Andre Dubus. Both of these stories are dealing with the family’s subject and provide us different perspectives of it. In Dìaz’s story we can see the relationship among a foreigner family, while in Andre Dubus’s story we see an American average family. In both stories, fathers play an important role; they figure prominently and have a considerable impact on their family but on the story also. The father in Dubus’s story is more family oriented that the one in Dìaz’; moreover the family is more closely–knit in Dubus’s story than in Dìaz’s story. The difference between the behaviors of the two fathers can be explained by their cultural backgrounds, which are not the same. These stories also provide us another perspective of the father’s role in the family, through their strength and their weakness without compromise.…
Through Juana’s story, Reyna, impersonates the journey and struggles that many people have to endure to get to the United States so they can have a better life for them and their families. Juana’s main motivation to cross over to the other side is to find her father that “abandoned” her and her mother when she was still a little girl, but she is also driven by harsh living conditions, oppression by a corrupt government, and hunger. Throughout her youth in Mexico Juana encounters many problems, both emotional and physical and these later encourage her to look for a better life in the United States. When she is twelve she is left in charge taking care of her baby sister in a flooded house while her mother goes out and looks for her father who still hasn’t returned from work. The next day as her father wakes her, she sees that her sister is missing and the baby is found drowned in the depths of the water of her flooded house. Juana has to deal with the guilt of her sister’s death, causing her great emotional and physical pain. As if things were not bad enough, this is not the only thing that Juana has to endure throughout her youth. After her sister’s death, her father leaves for “el otro lado” in search of work, leaving behind the debt of her sister’s funeral. No money…
Though both my parents came from a Hispanic background their conflicting cultures of first generation American and “chicano” shaped my identity. I vividly remember my birthday parties that I despised more than enjoyed as my two families came together with opposing values and language barriers in conflict on how I was being raised. Although this Montegue-Capulet like relationship ultimately led to the separation of my parents early on I was able to grow to love both of my families in their own way and identify with…
I was raised in a Mexican-American home. My parents had my older sister when soon after they graduated high school, so they struggled to provide the economic needs for my older sister’s heart surgeries when she was an adolescent. Because of these conflicts in their life they continued pursuing higher education while allowing my grandmother to look after my sister. They eventually started dedicating their lives to more work than play; therefore, that lead to me and my siblings to raised by my grandmother. Moreover, I grew up living in my grandmother’s house chasing chickens and being forced to eat everything on my plate. My cousins were in the same situation, and we were all around the same age. That lead us to spend everyday together, making…
Now this means that they are not the only ones who are out supporting the family. Hispanics place elders in a higher status. I think this is because they have been around for longer and have had much more experience dealing with life situations. The youth look up to them for advice, and have great respect for them too. People of Hispanic backgrounds also believe that the individual deserves personal one on one attention. Children are what confirm a marriage. The relationship that the parent creates with the child is pretty much put in front of the marital relationship between the parents. The boys are cherished and the girls are protected. The mother is the one to teach her son that he is to become the provider and will then also have to protect his family. Negative emotions are unacceptable in the traditional Hispanic family. Out of respect, they do not put their personal problems out in the air. Of course this presents a problem psychologically. They are taught not to express negative emotions or to disagree, which could in the long run, create some psychological problems. As far as religion, most Hispanics practice the Catholic religion. The church is the main point for both social and inspirational occurrences. Prayer is also a large part of their everyday life. They turn to God for many things such as illness, celebration, and even mourning. Families from the Middle…
To being, Maria and I have the same religious beliefs, Catholicism, and practice the same Latino culture among with the rest of her family. We both also see the best qualities in people and do whatever we can to help them. We also both try to please different people, of different morals, to stay fair to both sides. We are different in the fact that Maria is very dramatic and…
In John Grisham's classic story of a young lawyer named Rudy Baylor struggling to beat the odds that seem so greatly against him in his journey to success. He shows that you can be a successful lawyer without being a sell-out. He follows his heart and makes real connections with each of his clients. The story starts off with Rudy in a desperate need for work and goes searching in a hospital for potential clients while studying for the bar exam. The phrase "rainmaker" is a legal case that brings in a large sum of money for the client and the lawyer. This title seems appropriate because of the roller coaster ride Rudy goes through throughout the movie in each case. Rudy is in a tug-of-war situation between himself as a person and himself as a lawyer. Some question his ethics as an attorney because of some of the choices he makes that lead to his success in the end. But others believe he did what was right in the end by bending the rules a little.…
My mom and I have a lot in common, not only because we are both females or that she is my mother and I have inherited some of her traits, but because of the fact of the gender roles in our lives. Mexican families have strong beliefs that the females are perfect; that they should be the ones to cook, clean, and do everything the way it should be done. While males get to be pampered by the women in their lives. Being a girl creates a lot of restrictions, but being a Mexican girl just takes it to a whole other level.…
In 1950, Ray Bradbury wrote There Will Come Soft Rains, a short futuristic story of a post-apocalyptic world in which no human being remain in this world. The setting takes place in 2026, in which an atomic bomb from a nuclear war has destroyed the remainder of the city of Allendale, California. The people were killed, the houses, the animals, and nature were all destroyed because of the nuclear blast. Some people shadow is burned into the wall, and only a few of the silhouettes remained in the western facade of a house. There are five silhouettes in paint of a man, a woman, a boy and a girl. The rest was charred as a thin charcoaled layer. However, that house is the only one left, it is a fully automated house which keeps going as it is…