Many Chinese families have the Chinese tradition held as a priority in their family. One of these practiced Chinese traditions is arranged marriages which are a way of parents not giving their daughters a chance to choose who their future husband will be. The idea of arranged marriages had been practiced in Kingston’s home, Kingston was a fourteen-year-old who had been away from her parents for many years training to become a woman warrior. The day when she had started her menstrual cycle she was not living with her parents. Those she had stayed with while training decided to console her they allowed her to look into a gourd for just that day;when she looked in the gourd she had seen that “[there] was a wedding. [Her] mother was taking to the hosts: ‘Thank you for taking our daughter. Wherever she is, she must be happy now. She will certainly come back if she was alive, and if she is a spirit, you have given her a descent line” (Kingston 31). The age of fourteen was not the youngest age an arranged marriage would be arranged in China, so many young Chinese girls have been deprived of the opportunity to choose the one they would willingly want to spend the rest of their lives with. Specifically, in one Chinese village, a village matchmaker had gone to a young girl’s family to find her, her future groom. Lindo, the young girl, knows others outside her walls or even country do have their chance of choosing who they will be spending their life with, but “This was not [her] case. Instead, the village matchmaker [went to her] family when [she] was just two years old” (Tan 50). Since many young females are forced into arranged marriages the young girls are taught by their mothers to learn
Many Chinese families have the Chinese tradition held as a priority in their family. One of these practiced Chinese traditions is arranged marriages which are a way of parents not giving their daughters a chance to choose who their future husband will be. The idea of arranged marriages had been practiced in Kingston’s home, Kingston was a fourteen-year-old who had been away from her parents for many years training to become a woman warrior. The day when she had started her menstrual cycle she was not living with her parents. Those she had stayed with while training decided to console her they allowed her to look into a gourd for just that day;when she looked in the gourd she had seen that “[there] was a wedding. [Her] mother was taking to the hosts: ‘Thank you for taking our daughter. Wherever she is, she must be happy now. She will certainly come back if she was alive, and if she is a spirit, you have given her a descent line” (Kingston 31). The age of fourteen was not the youngest age an arranged marriage would be arranged in China, so many young Chinese girls have been deprived of the opportunity to choose the one they would willingly want to spend the rest of their lives with. Specifically, in one Chinese village, a village matchmaker had gone to a young girl’s family to find her, her future groom. Lindo, the young girl, knows others outside her walls or even country do have their chance of choosing who they will be spending their life with, but “This was not [her] case. Instead, the village matchmaker [went to her] family when [she] was just two years old” (Tan 50). Since many young females are forced into arranged marriages the young girls are taught by their mothers to learn