The most destructive of all emotions, jealousy, can cause a person to enact revenge on the…
The study of forgiveness in this research article leads us down a path of insightful hopefulness for reconciliation, peace, trust, self-esteem and greater self-actualization. Along with humanistic values this article gives the reader a deeper comfort in the mercies that is given from a greater high power when forgiveness is asserted. The overall premise of “The Forgiving Community,” as an initial model was a great starting point for greater research. Within the article we see why a basic theory could be important and should be implemented, especially in the case of reaching our children before a culture of unforgiveness and grudges engulf them.…
Sue Monk Kidd portrays this idea throughout the characters Lily and June with their struggles to find contentment in the world. However, this is an issue some people in the world flounder with. When a person has done someone wrong it is hard to overlook his or her actions and it inflicts pain upon the victim. It is not until the victim pardons the wrong doings of that person to find happiness with him or herself. In the end, the one forgiving benefits the greatest because the anger weighs heavily upon a person's soul. Once the anger dissipates a myriad of tensions is released and that person begins to move on with his or her life.Forgiving a lifelong grievance with someone releases the trigger within one’s self to begin the healing process of internal…
Justice isn't really about “getting even” or experiencing joy in retaliation, rather it is about righting a wrong that society would agree is morally culpable. Revenge possesses a selfish quality: arrogance, vindication, ruthlessness. Revenge shall not be confused with justice; however, societal standards have allowed these two to become false inverses. As seen in numerous novels, poems and theatrical productions, characters interpret justice as revenge and revenge as justice— so does society.…
Many times in life, people seek vengeance on one another because they think it’s the right thing, when it’s wrong. However revenge is too tempting there for one cannot retain it. In many situations the person seeking revenge not only hurts themselves but everyone amongst them. Mahatma Gandhi confirms this when he says “An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind”. This means, from revenge you only end up impairing everyone from the resentful wrongs you perform. Some may agree or disagree with this quote. Euripides shows this quote being true in his play Medea.…
Shapiro, B.. "Let go of the past: The benefits of forgiveness." Washington Jewish Week, September 22, 2011, http://www.proquest.com/ (accessed April 5, 2012).…
Foremost, in the short story “The Possibility of Evil”, Miss Adela Strangeworth writes suspicious letters to several peers such as Don Crane about the possible evil lurking in her town, believing that “if one of [her people were] in trouble she ought to know about it” (Jackson 7), to which Don Crane replies, “LOOK OUT AT WHAT USED TO BE YOUR ROSES” (Jackson 8). As such, Miss Strangeworth and the people in her town have a totalitarian relationship, where her superiority lets her spiteful to other people, where a rebellious subject under her acts upon his instinct to overthrow her authority. Accordingly, when a character is out of line conforming to the author’s opinion about how humans should act around others, the character receives a form of punishment administered by the author. Furthermore, in the short story “Ambush”, a boy named Roger shoots an unsuspecting Joey Bacon with a water gun, and as a result, reacts violently by throwing a rock at his head; seven years later, an officer informs Joey’s mother that he had “died in an ambush near Khe Sanh” (Woodward 1). Whether this short story was biographical, as the protagonist and the author coincidentally have the same first name, the author incorporates this early rivalry between the two characters as a way to distance themselves, creating a conflict where Roger ultimately is not interested in Joey’s demise, believing it as poetic justice and revenge upon him as a result of his injuries. In the same way, within the realm of fiction, authors chasten characters who have done wrong doings against other characters like a physical wound, intentionally reflecting modern societal standards of how humans must treat each other on an equal basis, or else the author, representing an existential force, levels the ranks between them, delivering…
David Brin quoted "The worst mistake of first contact, made throughout history made by individual on both sides of every new encounter has been unfortunate habit of making assumptions. It is often proved fatal." This quote took major themes of The Outsiders written by S.E. Hinton. Often times, people make judgements upon others by first impression. Those judgements can cause anger. This could lead to fighting, in his quote it can often be fatal. Fatal doesn't have to mean the end of a life, but an end to a friendship or a family bond. People do not see that everyone has problems that people hid from outsiders. This paper will discuss the three themes of The Outsiders, fighting never solves anything, everybody has problems, and don't pass judgement on another.…
Every day we are given a fresh start; another chance to move forward in our lives and accomplish the things we thrive to achieve day to day. A new day can also liberate us from our past mistakes and provide us with a chance to change our ways. We are all faced with misery and misfortune at points in our lives, some more than others. We must recognize that it is not the burden in itself that shapes who we are, but how well or how poorly we deal with the difficulties. Sometimes misfortunes can be seen in a negative light; because it seems unjust, therefore we response in a negative matter, and become negligent to change. Overcoming tragic events is what truly counts, for we are meant to live happily and in acceptance that there are things that we cannot change. In many cases, individuals seem to feel as though they’ve lost an amount so great that they are unable to free themselves of the pain. This perspective often leads to further suffering. A Temporary Matter by Jhumpa Lahou and Kiss Me by Andrew Pyper demonstrate a loss of identity, negligence towards communication, and eventually leading to the destruction of a relationship.…
In The Crucible, by Arthur Miller, one of the main themes is forgiving others. When you forgive others, you free yourself from more hurt. And God commands it.…
I personally have never experienced hatred for someone so much that it made my life take a turn for the worst. Although in “The Interlopers”, a short story by Saki, tells a tale of two men, Georg and Ulrich. Georg and Ulrich have had hatred for each other ever since they were younger. They chance upon a very difficult situation, when the two men get trapped underneath a tree together. This incident led them to put aside their differences and become friends, until fate decides that there will be no happen ending for the two men and they both unhappily die. Saki uses situational irony in “The Interlopers” to reveal that having hostility towards someone and hatred and venom in your heart leads to horrible consequences and destruction to ourselves or others.…
Although Alan Paton’s novel, Cry, the Beloved Country, is centered around the apartheid in South Africa, he explores forgiveness and the choice to cast someone aside. Paton’s two main characters, James Jarvis, a white farmer, and Reverend Stephen Kumalo, a black pastor, search to forgive throughout the novel. These men chose to welcome the ability to forgive and be forgiven in their lives. Many people don’t realize that forgiveness is a choice - it is an integral part of our lives - perhaps even one of the most important ones because it helps us move on and find closure in our lives. Forgiveness is a part of human nature and is important in our lives; it enables people to move forward and find closure from a past event of one’s life.…
“Death by Scrabble,” a short story by Charlie Fish, displays a particularly intricate design of irony in a variety of ways. Beginning with the bold statement “It’s a hot day and I hate my wife.” The irony extends from the opening sentence into the subsequent three pages of enclosed cynicism. The enunciation from the opening shows symbolism and foreshadowing for the future events that will take place as a result of each word spelt out upon the scrabble board.…
In the story Death by Scrable , there are two main character which are husband and wife . Which one is the antagonist character ? I think the husband is the antagonist character . The reason why the husband is the antagonist character is beacause of his hatred , dishonesty and emotional .…
Girard believes that early in human evolution, we learned to control internal conflict by projecting our violence outside the community onto a scapegoat. It was so effective that we have continued to use scapegoating to control violence ever since. The successful use of a scapegoat depends on the community’s belief that they have found the cause and cure of their troubles in this “enemy”. Once the enemy is destroyed or expelled, a community does experience a sense of relief and calm is restored. But the calm is temporary since the scapegoat was not really the cause or the cure of the conflict that led…