This is the struggle for most people. Although Amir did not experience this because Hassan forgave him and was still a good friend to him, we face it whenever we do something wrong to someone that we care about. The other end of the spectrum is that the person we have wronged will forgive us, but we feel so guilty that we push them away. This was the situation for Amir and Hassan, and it is actually very sad. Of course we do not want to lose someone that we care about. However, we do not understand how they can forgive us, and every time we are around them we seem to think of what happened.
Overall, the theme of “there is a way to be good again” relates to everyone. It is something that most people will face in their life, so it is a nice lesson to learn early on. Everyone needs to know that they cannot punish themselves forever, and there is a way to make up for the bad things in life. The Kite Runner gives us these lessons. Everybody should take these lessons to heart because they will help at some point in