MBTI pages 1-8; Supportive Communication pages 9-11, Conflict Style pages 12-14
Questions | SA | My Examples | P1 | P1: Mother | P2 | P2: Aunt Moe | P3 | P3: Ben | Trends | 1. At a party do you(a) interact with many, including strangers (b) interact with a few, known to you | A | I enjoy being the “life of the party” | A | Always talks to strangers, about anything | A | Talks to all- all the time | A | Strangers don’t scare Tara | All A’s | 2. Are you more(a) realistic than speculative (b) speculative than realistic | A | I like things to be realistic and achievable | B | Optimistic | A | All about realistic | A | realistic | Half and Half | 3. Is it worse to(a) have your "head in the clouds" (b) be "in a rut | B | Being in a “rut” would be the worst. | B | Would rather dream than be “stuck” | A | Not impressed with “dumb blondes” | B | She appreciates imagitnation | Mostly B’s | 4. Are you more impressed by(a) principles (b) emotions | B | People perspective | A | Principles as far as values | A | Principles | B | | All A’s of surveyors not me | 5. Are you more drawn toward the(a) convincing (b) touching | B | I think you can convince by touching | B | Taras sensitivity of others | B | Emotional when seeing others empathetic | B | She gets “sucked in” by emotion | All B’s – emotional | 6. Do you prefer to work(a) to deadlines (b) just "whenever" | B | I wish I didn’t have any deadlines! | A | Organized when she needs to be | A | Structured in homework and work | B | Procrastinates so much | Half and Half. Ben and I agree | 7. Do you tend to choose(a) rather carefully (b) somewhat impulsively | B | Impulsive in life decisions. Spur of the moment | A | Choices. But in life she is spontaneous | A | Even when shopping | B | Impulsively | All A’s but me! | 8. At parties do youa) stay late with increasing energyb) leave early with decreasing energy | A | I never want