It is evident that the mother’s guidance is needed to support her daughter as Pastan writes, “as you wobbled away / on two round wheels” (lines 5–6).
As a daughter learns to deal with life and find her way, she leans on her mother to transverse the uncharted territory. Pastan symbolizes the twists and turns one must navigate in life as she describes the bike path the mother and daughter are traveling on in the park (9–10).
As the mother realizes her daughter has become a strong individual, ready for the challenges of life, the reader feels the emotions of both sadness and pride. In perhaps the most vivid part of the poem, Pastan’s application of simile illustrates a daughters farewell to her mother, “the hair flapping / behind you like a / handkerchief waving / goodbye” (21–24).
By passionately relating to her readers, Pastan conveys a significant connotation of a mother’s encouragement of her daughter, the lessons of avoiding life’s pitfalls, and the transitions of