“Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents which in prosperous circumstances would have lain dormant.” What the Roman poet Horace was saying was that when there is an obstacle in our way, our true colors will radiate. I could not agree more. When we as human beings feel passionate about achieving a goal, we may learn something new of ourselves, maybe a new trait that we did not know we possessed, when we reach new heights we did not know we could push ourselves towards. Challenges are similar to tests. Challenges are faced every day, but how we respond to them determines how strong we really are. Prime examples are superheroes and students that move dramatically.…
David Foster Wallace made an excellent Kenyon College Commencement. Rather than the boring conventional speeches, he came up with the idea of telling the students about the reality i.e. what is going to happen after this youth will come in the real part of life. Instead of giving students a crap of what amazing things they are going to do in future, he makes them realize the dark aspects of future. Not only this, but he also provides a solution to handle that situation. Wallace explains about the boring aspects of adulthood. He explains what is it like when someone has responsibilities on his shoulders. The thing that he focusses on is what we think and how we think. Our thinking has a direct effect on our lives; if we have an optimistic approach then things would get easy for us but having a pessimistic approach would do nothing but make us more frustrated. According to him, the way we perceive things matters a lot. For instance, he talks extensively about the boring routine and the supermarket stuff. The way he makes a scene in our minds about how one can gets mad on all the things he has to go through while driving to home from work. How one can get angry about others’ driving, the children crying, the long lines in supermarket and even about the gas guzzler SUVs. But his purpose of creating this scene in the students’ minds is to tell them not to be frustrated by this stuff but just relax and enjoy life. Have an optimistic approach towards life. The fast driving might be because someone’s child needs doctor’s help or all the people in the long line might be feeling same or worse than him. Everyone could have a long, tired and frustrated day.…
A person’s success or failure can be determined by their environment, education, choices; a number of different things. The autobiography The Other Wes Moore takes a look at two boys with the same name and eerily similar circumstances who end up in very different places in life. Wes Moore spoke at convocation about his book and what he hoped that people would get from it. In the book he says “The chilling truth is that his story could have been mine. The tragedy is that my story could have been his.” (Moore xi). These two men didn’t share the same fate because they each made a choice about what they wanted their life to become. The book truly demonstrates how the choices you make, make you. One Wes Moore showed that you can make the decision to not be a product of your environment or any other situation, and go on to be very successful in life. The way a person is shaped and guided in their developmental years does undoubtedly play a huge role in the type of person they will become people. A lot of elements come into play that helps to determine a person’s success or failure but at the end of the day the most important factor is a person’s choices.…
Everyone is born into different circumstances and face different obstacles over the course of their life, yet just because some may be born into worse circumstances, doesn’t mean that should determine how they end up in life. Philip Bartlett said “I see now that the circumstances of one's birth are irrelevant; it is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are.” However, trying to go past what one’s been taught in their entire life couldn’t be an easy feat. A prime example would be Jeannette Walls in The Glass Castle and Shaka Senghor in his TED Talk Why your worst deeds don’t define you.…
I look forward to that point in life where I can reflect on my life and be proud of my accomplishments. For years, not having a college degree was the biggest regret I ever had, and now that I will no longer have that, I look forward to what I will do with that. Like with Erikson’s Ego vs Despair, like Kelly, I want to be at that point in my life where I am satisfied with my life. I never felt bad, but there were moments in my work career where I would not be able to advance because I did not have a college degree. Joan Erikson and Gerotransendence, Kelly have hit that point where he is content with where his life is at and the close circle of friends that he has is what helps keep him grounded.…
The Benefits To A Liberal Arts Education Vocational colleges are faster and easier then basic college, however, vocational school are missing a very important part of education, liberal arts. In the article Increasing the Value of a Liberal Education, written by William G. Bowen, published in 2012 in The Atlantic, Bowen discusses the importance of a liberal arts education. Bowen states the benefits to a liberal art education, which includes the ability to solve new problems on the spot, lifelong skill for life, and preparing student to successfully address complex problems. Additionally, Bowen talks about how community colleges and university can better their school by focusing on education and faculty members rather then spending money on football field and elaborate student centers.…
From the time we enter kindergarten until the time we exit college we are poked and prodded and led in the direction of the average; of the middle-class. Athletic dreams are squashed at an early age save the very few exceptional talents, artistic pursuits deemed unnecessary unless you are the second-coming of Picasso or Shakespeare, traveling and seeing this incredible world first hand is to be put off in favor of your "education" and "real life".…
Wes Moore is a talented and educated man and accomplished an enormous amount of things while growing up. He was a Rhodes Scholar and was recognized in the Hall of Fame, but that never fazed him it just made him want to achieve bigger and better things. He looked past that and reached out to someone whose life didn’t go as planned. By doing this he gave the other Wes Moore something to live for, something that would help him forget his past and make him feel like he was a good person again. Wes Moore wrote this book to inspire people and let them learn from other people’s mistakes. He clearly found a wide range of audiences since his book became a New York Times Best seller. This book was made for anyone going through a tough time, struggling for hope, or just an excellent book to read. Wes Moore’s intentions for this book was to show people not to give up on themselves and anythings possible. People choose their own destiny, that you can be what you want to be, so don’t give up even if you hit a pump in the road. Wes Moore studied at two distinguished universities, first John Hopkins then Oxford University where he received a full scholarship. He strongly shows his…
Most people think that their goal in life is to be perfect. They strive for the best grades, to be the best one on the sports’ team, get the most scholarships, go to the best college, and to get the highest paying job. In reality, aiming for perfection only leads to downfall. When a person strives for perfection the only thing that can happen is disappointment. Since no one in life is truly perfect, goals will not be met, and disappointment will have to be faced. In her speech Commencement Speech at Mount Holyoke College, Anna Quindlen explores the topic of perfection and how striving for it can put a damper on life. By using rhetorical devices and appealing to pathos, Quindlen is able to effectively drive her point home.…
Although, life is never like the movies, movies are more than pure entertainment, some movies also teach life lessons. As an example, in 1986, John Hughes wrote and directed Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, it was about Ferris Bueller and his friends who decided to follow Ferris’s plan to skips school in order to have an adventure around the the city of Chicago. I have seen Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, several times since I was little; however, I have always disliked the movie. However, I recently watched it again and I now have the ability to fully understand the concepts in the movie. An essential quote that hangs over my head is when Ferris Bueller says, “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it,” and Ferris is right because life is not going to stop and with life constantly moving it is impossible to catch everything; however, if students only focus on establishing a future, they are missing on the presents. Just like me, throughout school I have only focused on school; I spent most of my time studying. However, I began to realize that life is more than just studying for school in order to have a career. College grants independence. Independence is an immense amount of responsibility. I am free from watchful eyes, and I can do whatever I want without being criticized by my parents. Thus, I began to realize that life also has opportunities for mistakes and for “ditch…
“A 0.5 now a 2.8- Change is good, for those who wait,” Freedom Writer, Diary 78, Page 160, defines the meaning of overcoming adversity and finding success. Every day, these students are reminded constantly that they are a failure, culpable for the death of friends or family, a drop-out, a culprit or even a no body. The freedom writers face deadly struggles daily and still manage to keep their life and overcome their biggest challenge, adversity. Overcoming adversity and finding success is the most difficult struggle they wake up to and face. As seen in the book, students are likely to explain that they won’t make it past graduation, they won’t succeed, and they’ll be just like the others and drop out as expected. I think this book teaches students, such as myself, that even in the toughest times you can overcome adversity. Finding success is an essential piece to life that people give up on after…
If someone limits himself and decides to sit back and watch his prospects pass him by because he believes that is where he belongs, there is obviously no way this person will be able to gain anything. In order for someone to prosper, they must be able to make the right decisions that will lead them on the right path to attain whatever their needs may be. Am excellent model of this is Nancy Pham, came from living in “a crowded refugee boat in the choppy seas off warton South Vietnam” to finally living the life she wanted in “suburban Toledo where she’d open her own beauty salon” (McLaughlin). Nancy Pham sacrificed all she had, and risked the safety of herself and her family to give them a better life. It is with this choice that she was able to acquire that second chance at making her dream a reality. The same is possible to those who make the choices that will help them advance and take that extra step to reach that American…
During the four years of my undergraduate career I would question myself and my abilities to succeed both academically and athletically. I also, question my dream of playing in the NFL. I was no longer labeled as the smart kid but the kid who is only here because of his athletic abilities. Not to mention, I had everyone else back at home telling me I was going to make it to the NFL. So, I ditched the label of being smart to being athletic and a great football player. I took on the role in which I was labeled and it brought not so good result. I focused more on my athletic abilities with football and being to care less about learning. My perception changed from “I can change my conditions and situations with a great education’ to “why do I need this, I will be playing in the NFL making millions.” As a result, my grades declined along with my playing time on the football field.…
As Malcolm X says, “education is the passport to the future”, it safe to say he is right. This symbolizes that the more a person expands their knowledge and tries to use new and inventive ideas, the more they are to improve the world and open doors for others as well. Of course, all this comes with great responsibility and confidence, it is guaranteed that there will be some struggles and complications, but if the mind is set upon a goal and it is truly what you want to accomplish, it is possible that there will be a positive outcome. I am one of those people in the universe that works the hardest at accomplishing what is strongly believed to be an improvement for not only myself, but for others, and the world itself. To move closer to my ambitions…
We propose changes, transformations, evolutions and revolutions and yet neglect to realize our own mistakes, as of to where we should start changing and therefore find the proper ways to make these changes come true so a truly transformation can take place. My life has been a completely trial and error ever since I got out of high school in the sense that when I graduated I had not a single clue of what I wanted to do with my life. It was embarrassing because most of my friends had already applied to the local university and were set to start right away while I was still looking and reading to career booklets to see if any will ring a bell. As my last resource, I decided to go to a private university where less paperwork was required and was able to sign up until the last minute. Now that I looked back at those days I can only imagine my parents and family reaction to my last minute and quick decision mainly because I was an excellent student through high school and perhaps everybody had high expectations of what I could become but I could not help it, my mind and desires at that point of my life were blank. I was only eighteen but I felt the pressure of the years ahead if I was to get myself into one of those complicated careers that everybody else would have love to see me pursue but yet nobody would have feel my failure when probably along the way I would have end up quitting it and my efforts to please others would have been in vain.…