Would you have the courage to help someone that you barely know, if that meant that your own life could change dramatically? When reading Until They Bring The Streetcars Back by Stanley Gordon West you might think about this more than a few times. In the book, the main character Calvin Gant goes to extreme measures to help out his new friend Gretchen Luttermann.…
The piece foregrounds and gives “textual prominence” (Huckin, 1997, p. 82). to the depiction of love through both a fabled lens and a scientific lens. The descriptive comparison of the symbolism “hearts and doves, stars and fireworks” with “functional magnetic resonance imaging” highlights how contemporary relationships are no longer a fairytale experience, or specifically “aren’t nearly as pretty.”…
Love is the emotional investment that pushes people to their limits. This is demonstrated in the film “Pieces of April”, when our protagonist April is pushed to do something for the sake of love, even though she dreaded every moment of it. She tries to prepare a Thanksgiving meal for her and her family with hopes to be reunited after years of negligence. Although she tries to conceal her exhilaration it is clear and obvious that she is eager for her family’s arrival. Her attempt at cooking a meal for her family and going through so much difficulty is not so literal. It represents the notion of how love can push people into doing impetuous things. The deficient love of a girl for her family can make her do so much. The relationship between April and her mother, Joy, resemble the relationship of Tiffany Chan and her mother from the short story "Of Kin and Kind". Both the mother and daughter relationship is very rigid and tense. Tiffany claims that her and her mother may be of the same blood but they are anything but alike, by declaring "We were kin, but less than kind". This quote can also reflect April’s view on her and her mother’s relationship. We all believe that our similarities brings us close and our difference separates us without knowing that the only thing still holding our ties is the love we have for each other. That love is what makes us forget the conflicts and disagreements we may have and reminds us that no matter how different we are, we learn to accept and love each other. Bobby, April’s boyfriend, also illustrates how love can give people unbelievable strength and make them overlook the concept of possible. He claims his mother lifted the car to save his life after they had been in an accident. He carries his belief and shows what a person can accomplish if they carry love within themselves, “When you have love you do things you never thought you could. She had a moment of unbelievable strength because she had love”. The power…
Love is defined by dictionary.com as “an intense feeling of deep emotion.†Love is not something that should be forced, because of common interests, intelligence, or good weather. Love is much more natural, it is not an equation to be solved; it is an emotion to be felt. Who one decides to marry is one of, if not the biggest decision one has to make in his or her life, it should not be taken lightly. In Mavis Gallant’s short story, The Other Paris, Gallant mocks humanity’s modern day over analyzing of love through narrative voice and characterization to prove that love is not something that should be forced or solved, but something that should happen naturally on its own.…
People of the twenty first century do not understand the real meaning of love. Men and women want love for the same reason today as they did in the sixteenth century. In William Shakespeare’s play “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” he proves how people use love for the wrong reasons such as forced love, parental love, and romantic love.…
In the end it is love that truly defines life. Love is what brings people all of the world joy and happiness. Of course, as with every thing, there is a flip side to this, love, especially uncontrollable love can lead to an awful thing called heartbreak. Many people wonder if love is worth the risk of heart break. Even Tish wonders this in If Beale Street Could Talk. The author James Baldwin over shadows a lot of important topics including racism, justice, and prejudice, but his main point was to show that end the end, that risk of heart break was worth the amazing experience of love. To be human everyone feels love, but the important part of that human emotion is to recognize it and love unconditionally to a select group…
What is Love? Robert Frost once wrote “Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.” Love is one of the strongest emotions we feel, yet it is the hardest emotion to ever be understood. “The Song of Songs” by Ellen Gilchrist, explores the theme of love, particularly a mother’s love for her child, and the impact it has on one woman specifically, Barret Clare.…
The stories “No One’s a Mystery” and “The Girls in their Summer Dresses” are both short stories that raise the question; when is it time to let go of love? The obvious answer is when it begins to hurt somebody more than it makes them feel elated. ‘Love’ is not easily defined by a dictionary or an internet search; love is something that you must feel and experience for yourself, however some kinds of love are dysfunctional and do nothing but leave someone bitter and jaded.…
Love seems to be in our lives as well as in stories in many different ways. In the story The Storm the father and son exhibit a type of love between the two family members. The Horse Dealer’s Daughter show’s us a type of irrational love that can happen between two people. Then there is an obsessive type of love which is shown in the story a Rose for Emily.…
In the expression “falling in love” people say that the use of the word “falling” is because there isn’t an easy and safe way to love, rather it is messy, complicated and full of action. Ideally, one would believe that two people who share identical characteristics, likes and dislikes would be best suited for a romantic relationship, however the common phrase is that “opposites attract”. A relationship between two people with conflicting values can be difficult to hold, however it is very possible for these to be the relationships that evolve into something precious. Barefoot in the Park, by Neil Simon, follows newlyweds Corie and Paul while the play Play it Again, Sam shows the couple of Dick and Linda who have been married for some time. Both of these couples involved career driven men who eventually neglect the impulsive whims of their wives which later leads to panic and disorder in their relationships. By the end of each play, we learn that there for a relationship to work, there needs to be a give-and-take in which each individual sacrifices and appreciates the other. The nature of love is proven to be based on a balance of the pragmatic and romantic sides to a relationship.…
Ewing Campbell discusses his thoughts on what can be taken from a story where “nothing happens”, something he says readers have often complained about with Raymond Carver’s “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love.” Campbell does a good job of summarizing the story as he talks about the several varieties of emotion, existing under the single rubric of love, that enter into the conversation either in passing or at length—“spiritual love, carnal love, chivalric love, idealized devotion, and even the sort of complex torment that exhibits itself in abuse, often murder, and sometimes suicide.” He goes on to say that there is more to the story than just that though. He believes that “the little ironies and revelations of the story help to develop a complete narrative that a summary can never sufficiently provide.” Campbell thinks that these ironies and revelations are capable of revealing the inability of these characters to see themselves or each other honestly. He keeps most of his attention on Mel, someone he says “remains partly blind to the truths of love and self.” Campbell mentions how Mel idealizes the elderly couple’s love and that the conversation at the table never approaches the real thing. He believes “the reader can rightly infer that nothing he has ever felt as love could be favorably compared with what he found in the elderly man who was depressed because he couldn’t see his wife.” He then ends his essay with, “Carver dramatically juxtaposes varieties of experience that, when seen together, sharpen their lines of difference and no longer pass unquestioned for love.”…
In the three marvelous works, Matchstick Men, Punch-Drunk Love, and "Mama Day", people are all changed greatly, and for the better by romantic or father/child love. How everyone knows that there is no one on Earth who is perfect, yet when there is love, we come so close to it. Within these three works of art, one can analyze how there is actual change through people when there is love present.…
“Here indeed is the true lover,” said the Nightingale. “What I sing of, he suffers—what is joy to me, to him is pain. Surely Love is a wonderful thing. It is more precious than emeralds, and dearer than fine opals. Pearls and pomegranates cannot buy it, nor is it set forth in the marketplace. It may not be purchased of the merchants, nor can it be weighed out in the balance for gold.”…
What is love? It is a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. According to Irving Singer, however, it can also be threatening, subversive, and is feared by many. Why, if love is a positive emotion and act, does Singer associate these negatives with it? The reason for this is because love, although experienced in very different ways, has a profound effect on every single one of us. These effects can range anywhere from simply letting yourself and your beloved to enjoy each other’s company, to letting them control who you are. The truth is love has such a power over us that it can change almost everything about whom we are. Whether it is positive or negative, once one has loved, its effects are everlasting.…
What is love? A question all humans will examine during their lifetime; a question human beings including scientists, psychologists, artists, etc. will never come to an agreement on its definition. Whether love is a human need for caring and comfort, or a human strive for beautiful sensations, or a wish for giving and sharing goodness with others, love regulates and modifies human lives, defining all kinds of relationships between human beings. After reading and discussing Plato’s Symposium, Apology and Crito, my opinion and knowledge about love has broaden and strengthen because of a complementary understanding about how love is innate in humans, how beauty, goodness and love are all interrelated, and how God’s gift of the sexual aspect of love is much more than procreation.…