- The first born is always the experiment to parents, so the birth order is design to help the other kids.…
I personally feel that birth order and family size do not, in any way, shape or form, affect intelligence. The information concluded by Zajonc and Marolla does include some valid points, however I do not believe that birth order is significant enough to be studied so thoroughly. The impact of family size and birth order has absolutely no affect on intellectual abilities. Each child is born with their own set of skills that grow and change as they do. I believe that factors such as living environment and life experiences affect intelligence more than anything. (If it wasn’t obvious, I am very much into the psychodynamic approach of psychology.) I myself am an only child, and I do not see myself being any more or less intellectually capable than I am now if I had…
My view of childbirth was limited before this movie. The Business of Being Born challenged every aspect of the pregnancy process and childbirth experience, for me. Childbirth is a billion dollar industry that has skyrocketed in the United States. This movie, directed by Rickki Lake, examines all the different approaches to childbirth.…
This birth order information explains how personality traits and lives are affected by being the first born, middle born, or last born child.…
Adler studied birth order and argued that there was a difference on a person and their behavior and personality. In “Personality Theories”, by Eric Shiraev, it stated that “Adler believed that first born children, because of their upbringing, should be more serious, conscientious, aggressive, conservative, organized, responsible, independent, fearful, high achieving, and competitive than their siblings”. First born children are less open to new ideas, more dominant, and more conscientious. They also might feel less important once they get a younger sibling and needs to learn how to share and care for their sibling. In addition, first born children strive for perfection and mastery because expectations are set high from parents to set a good example for their sibling.…
I think a lot of my mentality and the way I am today comes from being the oldest child. I was five years old and playing in a tree in my backyard in San Diego when I heard the news about my mom being in the hospital about to give birth. Eight agonizing hours of waiting in the hospital waiting room watching local news and consuming vending machine snacks later, I walked into the delivery room and saw…
Parents treat children of different age and gender differently, which leads to the trends that birth order researcher have built their theories off. Generally, firstborns are viewed as ambitious, assertive, controlling, and reliable (Zupek). These characteristics are caused by being raised in an environment consisting of mostly adults. By being raised in an adult based environment, firstborns are viewed as “mini-adults.” Middle children tend to be peacemakers, negotiators, easy-going, and thrive on friendship (Zupek). Middle children possess these characteristics because they live in their older sibling’s shadow. Parents normally pay more attention to the high achieving oldest child or the baby of the family causing the middle child to feel left out or unwanted. Due to this lack of attention middle children tend to center their lives around friends and not family because their friends notice them and make them feel wanted. Lastborns are known to be charming, creative, self-centered, and manipulative (Zupek). By the last child, parents tend to have a more relaxed parenting style. The relaxed nature of the parents cause the rules to become flexible and less enforced. Lastborn children may take advantage of this by pushing the limit because they know their parents will look the other way. Also, lastborns may want and expect others to assist…
The Business of being born is an informative film that highlights us how hospitals turned into businesses and who actually benefits from the medicalization and the money that is made. We could see women giving birth naturally at home and others in hospitals and what has happened to women throughout the years in regards to childbirth. Also, doctors and midwives are interviewed which gives us a perspective from both sides.…
Students may display behaviors that are tied to their birth order, and it might could be information that would help inform my work with a client. While I don’t think every person fits Adler’s mold exactly, I do think that his framework gives a starting point to think about and investigate where behavior is originating from in the context of sibling relationships.…
The birth of any child alters to some degree the family patterns of the family group he was born into. These next questions will ask you to focus on the Childs family and will need to be answered through discussion with the parents ( or…
Many people believe that a child's placement in the family, such as oldest, youngest, or middle kid, influences the character traits of the child. The youngest child is usually the most easily spoiled and is more likely to be the popular kid or the lead clown in a group of kids. The only child tends too have problems with sharing, the oldest is always bossy, the youngest is always spoiled, and the middle kid is just stuck in the middle. I like to think of it there were right and left extremes. On the right extreme, there is the older child: bossy, and with less freedom. On the left extreme is the youngest child: spoiled, just a little baby sometimes. And then there's the middle kid: He/she's just somewhere in the middle, between all the bossiness and babyish traits.…
This study involves a person's intellectual development in correlation to the order in which they were born in relation to their siblings. Two research psychologists, Robert B. Zajonc and Gregory B. Markus, developed a theory in an attempt to explain the relationship between birth order and intelligence. They conducted this study by gathering information from previous research and applied it to the data they collected themselves. A research project was conducted n the late 1960's that involved testing the intellectual abilities of children born at the end of WWII. They found a strong relationship between the birth order and the Raven test scores. The ones born first scored higher, and the score decreased with the declining…
personality, feelings, and thoughts. De. Leman stated in his Birth Order Book that “birth order is designed to give you clues about what an individual is like and what their thoughts and feelings are (75).” Birth Order can be affected by factors such as the number of siblings an individual has and the age gap separating them. Although an individual can not change his or her birth order, he or she can change a mindset which influences actions and personality. Birth Order affects personalities depending on if an individual is a firstborn, middle child, or the youngest.…
In my life, birth order doesn't actually affect me that much as "LWFC" does for Tita (I am the youngest), but it still has some negative effects. Firstly, I am expected to do more than my brother. Since my brother is the one doing my mistakes, my parents think I should be able to learn from them and move on. This is probably the worst part of being the youngest, as it forces me to be better than someone who is already pretty well-behaved. Next, I am also given hand-me down and am not allowed to waste them. Instead of being able to buy my own clothes, my parents believe I should help save up by wearing my brother's. This doesn't really allow me to wear what I want. In conclusion, for me, being the youngest isn't really…
Many individuals receive advantages and disadvantages in the order your siblings and you were born. There are Pros and Cons to whether you are the youngest, oldest, in the middle, or the only child. In my case, I am the oldest child in my family. Some of the pros of being the oldest child are you get to experience things first, siblings often look up to you, and you can mess around with them. Consequently, some of the cons are that parents will be stricter in allowing you more freedom, you get a ton of pressure on your shoulder to set a good example, and you have more responsibilities with that.…