Theodore Roethke manipulates our emotional response to the poem through a number of literary conventions, some of which play on the conventions of a waltz. Waltzes are not technically difficult dances, and they are set to lighthearted, easily accessible music. It is a dance in which couples sway back and forth as they go round and round. Our emotions and sympathies do the same thing in this poem: The speaker carefully orders his images to juxtapose frightening images with comforting images. In the first stanza, for instance, the speaker begins with a frightening image: “The whiskey on your breath / Could make a small boy dizzy” (1–2). The second stanza begins with the words “We romped,” undercutting the serious tone of the first stanza, yet their romping has consequences that remind us again of the seriousness: Pans fall from the shelf, and the speaker’s mother frowns in disapproval. This pattern is repeated throughout the poem, and the waltz spins fast and out of control until we can only focus on a whirling sequence of disturbing emotions rather than a coherent overall feeling.
Roethke uses meter and rhyme to underscore the fact that there is something “off” about this waltz. A waltz is a carefully ordered and technically precise musical form, and this poem mimics that form, but it also reveals moments of imperfection. Playing on the fact that a waltz is written in 3/4 time, Roethke gives each of his lines either six or seven syllables. Yet there is something lurching about the way he strings together these six and