What Are Friends Are For?
By: Danica O. Bolicano
I’ve been in so many relationships, oops! Not a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship but a friendship. I can easily get along to other people, I’m so very friendly to the point that everyone seems to be my friend. Unfortunately I have this bad attitude that every time I have Barkada’s that seems to last forever, I can ruin my reputation and my attitude change. I’m so attach to them that the love I gave is really something more than friends but a love that is for a sister, maybe because I’m longing for a sister’s love that I can experience to them. My attitude change and they cannot understand and also myself that every time our friendship is going stronger, I am leaving them to the peak. With that attitude, I was left by so many friends that I thought will be last forever. These experiences made me realize that no one can accept my attitude and the way I love. I actually gave up having a friend because I know that they will just again leave and no one can ever understand me.
But then a group of girls came that their attitudes are very different to each other. I met them when I entered at Santa Isabel College. They were so friendly and easy to get along. This time, I became matured when it comes to have friends but then my bad attitude strikes again and I thought they will leave me just like my old friends. But, I was so wrong about it. They really are my true friends because they never leave my side and they correct everything in my life. I’ve finally overcome those bad attitudes that I have and I became stronger because of them. Believe it or not, I love my friends that I sometimes felt jealous for unknown reason and I know that they are not perfect that sometimes they are the reason why I’m sad and crying.
We have different attitudes but still we are click to each other that every time we are together through ups and downs, we can make it all and we are becoming stronger with the help of each